Please, help! How to keep a distance from a woman who is interfering in our most personal parts of life using the excuse of desperately loving my husband and me and that she cares soooooo much? She use to take xanax if we call 5 min later than she expected… I am trying to let her know that I don't like her personal questions, interfering, that we are grow ups, but she is not willing to understand it and give it up until I start to be rude. Then she feels insulted. If she offers me a cake and I say "no, thanks", she will trying repeatedly and will be able to take that cake in her hand and try to put it in my mouth! She is terrorizing all the family by her care, playing some eternal victim but actually, she makes all of us turning around her. I feel my husband sabotages me because he is not able to confront her and support me. But after visiting her, we both feel as if someone sucked all our blood. I have to do something! We are going to spend a part of the summer in her town and I am already going crazy!
2006-06-11
06:54:28
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Aurora
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Gender Studies