I don't feel love for anyone anymore. I just feel lust. I don't want friendships or relationships anymore. They make me feel strange and awkward. I no longer feel remorse, sorrow, hatred, or love. I think I've gone off the deep end and there's no turning back....(I don't really want to, either). Have I gone insane? Am I merely just confused? Or have I simply hurt myself beyond repair? Any thoughts?
2006-06-11 09:32:33 · 6 answers · asked by 1/6,833,020,409 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't want have feelings or emotions anymore. To me, they're useless.
2006-06-11 10:02:06 · update #1
Do I presume you've just split from a difficult relationship?
if your trust has been breached and your feeling a little hurt in the immortal words of Bobby McFerrin "Don't worry, be happy" for real man it ain't all that bad you are still in sound body and mind.
Ask yourself what is love?
What are you looking for?
write your answers down if you can tick most of the boxes as yes i can or the possibility that you can then yes it is possible
2006-06-11 09:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by G 3 · 10⤊ 2⤋
Obviously, you do have feelings about stuff. Or you wouldn't have asked about it. You seem to think that feeling are useless. Now, how do you feel about your feelings? huh? Don't take me the wrong way, o.k. . I have a saying " If you take all of your emotions and feelings, out of it. You will see things, crystal clear, with no distortions. Emotions and feelings toward something is our minds way of "distorting" the truth from ourselves. It's our primary security system, for our heads. Usually, what you are talking about, stems from some sort of mental abuse or trauma. Love, or the feeling of being needed. Is a primary instinct for human to survive. It is a "BASIC NEED" for human life. Without all of the "basic needs", you will slowly at first, die. I hope that you will be able to, look inside yourself , on your own or with the help of a friend or physician, and take your own personal "inventory". It's a lonely way to live, believe me. But anyways what are you do'n later? We should "hook-up",. So I can see, for myself. How much LUST you really have. Face down *** up, right?
2006-06-11 12:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by confeuzdus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone else owns my heart and has ever since i laid my eyes on him in 1994. We lived together for awhile and I had his son in 1996 (he just turned 10). I thought we were going to be together forever, but alcoholism took over and we split up. I tried to get back together with him for years and have hurt alot of men along the way, but there's something about this guy. Now, he's going to die by Xmas because of the alcohol. He's only 51 and I'm having a hard time thinking about life without him in it. My husband doesn't know. I've been married to someone else now for 2 years. I try to love him like i love the other, but I can't. The heart wants what the heart wants.
2006-06-11 09:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you don't feel many emotions, including sorrow, but you actually sound depressed to me. Depression can feel like numbness rather than outright grief. I could be wrong...you tell me.
2006-06-11 09:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!......snap!, i'm exactly the same :O, except my lust is more twisted, where like, i would have sex with someone then leave, and not give a toss about there feelings, it was caused by a girl.
2006-06-11 09:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible. I want to never love again, too... :(
2006-06-11 11:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋