I want to have a baby sooo bad. My husband is not ready to have a baby. He wants one but just feels he is not ready. He can't give me any reasons why he isn't ready. I am not on birth controll. The only form of protection that we use is a condom. He told me that when the time is right, I will get pregnant while using a condom. He just doesn't want to increase his chances right now. I know him very well and I don't think he will ever feel ready. We have tried setting different dates when we will try but everytime these dates come around, he doesn't want to try and backs out. I don't want to push him but he made a comment once, really quick and never again, a while ago, that if I want to have a baby, then I am just going to have to force him by not allowing him to use a condom. I don't want to do that because that wouldn't be fair. Should I believe that if we were meant to have a baby right now, we would have one even if he is using a condom? Thank you for your thoughts.
2007-07-30
16:35:04
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18 answers
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greenspongeornot
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