so i had my virginity taken away on june 27 w/ out condum and that day was supposed to be the last day of my period but the next 2following days i had my period again, and last friday july 27 i had sex again w/ out protection and this time my bf said that he felt like he came on me, but didnt feel that when he was about to, and ive been realy scared and i think i was supposed to have my period that weekend and until now i dont , and ive been feeling sick almost all the symptons of pregnancy and those feelings when your starting yer peiod or ending it. and my family say that i've been gaining weight the past few days, and ive been feeling realy stressed and scared. so i dont know wat to do. and if i am is the first time i did it or the one last friday ? help me im only 15.
2007-07-30 14:00:56 · 7 answers · asked by kevvvin 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I feel for you. From here on out, please, please go buy condoms, NEVER have sex without them until you are trying to have a baby (people cheat sometimes). Why go through the stress every month of wondering if you are pregnant when you could use protections and, most likely, not be (condoms break, and very rarely, have tiny holes). You need them not only to prevent pregnancy, but also to prevent STDs that could harm you, your ability to have children later, and/or interfere with intimate relationships in the future – you have to tell any future partners you have X disease for life and he could be at risk if he has sex with you.
ANYTIME the penis is in or on the outside of the vagina without a condom, you could get pregnant. The only way to know for sure if you are is to go buy a pregnancy test and follow the directions perfectly. I always take a pregnancy test in the morning, because the urine is the strongest.
Stress could cause you to gain weight, so that is not a reliable symptom, and many women do not gain weight in their first trimester. My usual symptoms (I have 3 children) are very sore breasts – way more than normal, nausea, and I am tired all the time.
Please try to go talk to an adult you can trust, and I sincerely hope this is your mom/dad, but you need adult help for an adult situation. In addition, tell your boyfriend that if he is old enough to have sex, then he is old enough to buy condoms and use them to protect the both of you.
2007-07-30 14:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mum first! She should know what is going on and be able to help you. Then if you haven't got a period go and buy a Home Pregnancy Test and take it. But most of all don't stress out. it is going to be hard to tell your mum that you have had sex twice without protection but you absolutely have to. Wait until she is alone or not busy today, and just say that you need to talk to her about something. Its ok to cry when you do but make sure she knows.
If my daughter came to me with this problem i would really be concerned (and a little mad), but i would want to know and help her. Don't tell you girlfriends at school or it will be everywhere by the end of the day and you don't want your mum to find out that way.
Good luck, and tell you mum straight away! And use condoms or get your mum to get you the pill if your not pregnant. You have to start being responsible.
2007-07-30 21:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possable.Take a test in a week and in the future use protection not only for pregnancy but also cause of STD's
2007-07-30 21:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Linda101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a test in 5 days
2007-07-30 21:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Blessed and Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to bed
2007-07-30 22:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shonnel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure kevin ur preg.....
2007-07-30 21:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk i think you are you should take a test
2007-07-30 21:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by jessi DUH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋