i am 35 yrs old. i had an abortion recently, which is fourth. i have two kids aged 13 and 10. we were not intending to have a third one. we were not using birth control pill, just following the safe period. but i got pregnant last week. i was shocked to know it. as we were having some financial problem i thought it wont be nice to have another kid and taking our age into consideration, we opt an abortion. now i am very depressed having done the abortion and feel to end my life. i know that wont be a solution, moreover it will cause disgrace to my husband and kids. my husband too stood with me for the abortion. he is very consoling. but when i am alone i think about it over and over and i am afraid, whether my mental balance will be gone. a feeling that i have done a sin, god wont forgive me. i am longing to have a baby soon, to overcome this situation. is it safe to have a baby after abortion and considering my age? wht should i do to overcome the depression?
2006-09-10
19:03:20
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