A friend of mine is socially awkward around people she has not known a long time. But with me and old friends, she's though still self-conscious if we stare at her while dancing or doing anything. A few years ago I realized it probably isn't shyness, but more of a social phobia, but I'm wondering if it's getting worse or something else.
For instance, when we visit her, if we run into her neighbors and she hears us talking, she immediately wants to know if they asked anything about her, such as if she works or ever goes out, because she dodges the neighbors and rarely sees them.
According to her, she's embarassed due to her unemployment and avoidance of neighbors, and worries they will begin to inquire about her, discover she's socially awkward and unemployed, and everyone will judge or gossip about her
It's really becoming a pain. So much so, that I'm thinking about ending our friendship. This has gone on years, constantly, always something, about someone, very draining.
2007-04-01
05:17:22
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Boris
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