My boyfriend and I have been together 4 yrs. I'm 35 and he's 36.....we have NEVER had sex.....not even once. No, he's not gay....but he does smoke pot every single day. I have asked him about the no sex.....he swears up and down that until we have total financial stability he does not want to take a chance of me getting pregnant....when I bring up birth control he comes back with it's not 100%. But, I feel if he really believed that he'd be a 36 yr. old virgin and he indeed is not.......he's not affectionate what so ever....he says never has been never will be...he claims it will all come together when I am done with school (nursing) and we have the stability. I've told him I feel rejected, unattractive, unwanted and untouchable......he says if I love him I'll wait....otherwise do what I have to do.......I'm so confused and I feel like less of a woman......and I know he's not cheating because he never leaves the house. Is this medical? I need help....answers....something.
2006-09-27
01:58:32
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