Singles & Dating - 12 March 2007

My boyfriend is getting to the point that he is almost paranoid. We moved in together back in November and we have been exclusive for almost a year now. Over the past week I have noticed some of his tendencies becoming more profound. He has always been a little possesive and over protective but it hasn't been this bad. For example, he wanted to know where I went for lunch one day, how long I had been there, and what time I got back to work. I have been kind of busy lately with a wedding I'm planning, and he thinks I am purposely trying to avoid him. He even went through my car the other day. I feel like I go through an interrogation process when I get home everyday. I love him with all of my heart and I'm not going anywhere. I just have been really busy lately, it doesn't mean I don't want to be with him. He does this, everytime I get really busy at work, he starts thinking I want to break up. Why is this? What can I do to make him believe that he is the one I want?

2007-03-12 04:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by stefanisky 1

ok so i had this friend and we have been cool like for three years, ya he has had lots of gf and i don't seem to have a problem. but right now we don't talk alot or not at all. i can't stop think about him, it either makes me mad or happy or really mad just thinking about him.
i know he likes me, i mean he almost kissed me and he wanted me to join the swim team with him but i coun't cuz i have a little thing about wide water.
but now we don't talk at all and he has a new gf, whats really going on.
do you know
plz tell me what to do

2007-03-12 04:36:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am pretty much clueless on when to call, how much to call, everything? I dont want to seem too clingy or not care enough, advice?

2007-03-12 04:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by annoynmus 1

I've been with my bf for 1 year. i'm 18 and he's 19. He doesn't like it when i talk to another guy (just friends). I had to break contact with all my male friends. And i had one with whom i had been a real close friend for 2 years and i miss him sometimes. i just had to tell him to stop talking to me coz my bf goes crazy if he finds out. And he doesnt let me go out with my girl friends alone either. He just wants to be with me everytime i go out. is he too jealous or is it normal?

He stopped talking to all his friends coz of me (i never told him to do so..) so i dunno.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not angry or urged for other guys' company.. but i was just thinking if he's being too possessive.. what do you think?

2007-03-12 04:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just moved to ny and I got no friends ....... places like times square not , i have been there a lot of times and not meet nobody because everyone has their friends and date


By the way I'm single and want to get rid of it

any ideas???

2007-03-12 04:34:40 · 7 answers · asked by blondepeach 1

I find myself comparing guys to my first love (to whom I no longer speak). It's like holding these guys to impossible standards. Is this just a fact of life or am I holding on too much to something that is long gone?

Please only serious answers. Immature and blatantly disrepectful comments are not appreciated nor wanted here, though I do appreciate constructive criticism.

2007-03-12 04:33:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 04:33:48 · 4 answers · asked by Reene B 1

I really have feelings for this guy - but am I fighting a losing battle? Any positive experiences with guys who haven't taken the plunge?

2007-03-12 04:32:52 · 5 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4

how should i deal with irt we are still together

2007-03-12 04:31:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://health.indiatimes.com/articleshow/1224255.cms

2007-03-12 04:31:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 04:30:57 · 3 answers · asked by monta o 1

...and doesn't respect you?

2007-03-12 04:29:20 · 6 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

What would you prefer a Rich guy with money,house bank balance or a guy who will poor but rich at heart who will come up in life?As the fact is you dont get all the qualities in one person?Where will u compromise?

2007-03-12 04:29:06 · 10 answers · asked by enid m 1

Is it a big turn on? Or no big deal?

2007-03-12 04:28:57 · 10 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1

and that would not include giving him make-up sex..

2007-03-12 04:28:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

NOTE: This question has also been posted under Health-General. I'm trying to get a variety of answers.

My girlfriend and I had a debate recently. And we are curious what the general public would say.

a) Would you break up with someone if they couldn't have kids?

b) What if they knew they couldn't have kids and concealed it from you for a number of years?

c) Do you think people who know they can't have kids should come right out in the beginning of a relationship and tell the other person?

Of course my gf and I have very different views on this subject and one of us believes that the answers to these questions would be the norm among most people. Please answer these questions not "philosophically" but how you actually feel.

Also remember it goes both ways... guys would you break up w/ a girl if she couldn't have kids... and girls would you break up w/ a guy if he couldn't have kids?

2007-03-12 04:27:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

with her hair and sumtimes looking at me. she also asks me questions time and time again even when she knows that i'll probably say i dont know and also the other day she was teasing me. I also mispelled her name and she told me about it but said it was alright. Then this monday i wanted to test out if i sat somewhere else if she sit next to me. She didnt but on wednesday when i went to go back sit where i usually do, she didnt sit next to me(there was a seat empty next to me) and seemed a bit upset.(she also didnt talk to me). Before wednesday's class started( it was me, her and sum1 else that sat in a group) though the other girl said that she and the other gurl(the girl who i think likes me) thought i ditched them. Today the same thing but at the end of the class she said bye. I dont think this means anything. What does this all mean and how can i fix it?

2007-03-12 04:26:10 · 3 answers · asked by ticko 1

I rly love this boy..but he likes this girl(who used to be my bestfriend!).he sent me a text message saying he loves me and he doesnt love her..& that he LIKES her but he likes me.sometimes he acts like he wants to be with me again but at the same time he acts like he rly wants to be with her..i dont know what to think or do anymore...should i just ask him back out cuz i know im the one he loves.or should i just move on && just be friends.??!!

2007-03-12 04:25:38 · 22 answers · asked by Ms.Confused 1

Omg is this so true if not then what parts?
Guys how much of this is true?.. if so what parts?
1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys..you're a HOE)

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3... Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-th... method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.


43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny.

53. We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

60. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

61. Your best friend, the guy you can go to with anything, is the guy who loves you more than any other ever could. He'd do anything to be with you, and will always love you. When he sees you cry he wishes he could change the stars to make you happy. He would go to the end of the world for you and loves you deeply.

62.)most guys are pigs but give them a chance they might prove you wrong!

2007-03-12 04:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by ~Shan~ aka Shannon B 1

Me and my ex of 4yrs have been broken up for about a month with no contact. I treated her so badly due to circumstances from my past and I didn't know how to love her b/c i didn't love myself. I am truly sorry for hurting her with my lies (no cheating) and hope she'll forgive me to where we'll be friends. Well I've met another female, beautiful, smart, and sweet. Why do I feel so bad about taking this to the next level? I have been completely honest with this new girl. I'm attracted to her but why do I feel guilty and continue to think about my ex when I'm sure she and I have no chance of getting back together? I'm so confused!

2007-03-12 04:23:33 · 5 answers · asked by so_sincere 2

Why do guys make fun of girls to get attion

2007-03-12 04:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Megan L. Rinehart 2

I was at a club on saturday and danced all night long with this extreamly cute guy..he said it was his birthday but it wasnt probably true because he was drunk...I had a few drinks myself and when last song played we just said goodbye and that's it...I went to this McDonalds with my friends and as I was waiting for them outside I saw him...he came over and asked for a good nite kiss because it was his birthday...I thought he was too cute to say no ,so we kissed. He was a really good kisser. He asked for my number and called me the same night...we talked for like ten min and that's it...he didnt call me after and he probably doesnt even remembers me because he was drunk....this is the first time that I kiss a guy the first day I met him and now I can't stop thinking about him...What can I do?????

2007-03-12 04:22:14 · 11 answers · asked by Yesky 2

I noticed this back when I was single in late 2005, early 2006. I dated a couple of guys casually (not at the same time) and after a couple of weeks, never heard from them again. Are guys really that sorry that they can't call the girl and say "I don't think this will work out"?? Is this the new way to break it off with someone? I just think that's extremely disrespectful to not even call and let the girl know you're no longer into her. What happens when you run into her later on and you're confronted about the "relationship"?

2007-03-12 04:21:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

To flirt with a work colleague

2007-03-12 04:21:39 · 21 answers · asked by Curious 2

what are some qualities that guys look for in girls??

2007-03-12 04:21:24 · 3 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1

I am so confuse. We had not talk since Jan. I thought he was mad at me and he thought I am mad at him. I am so confuse. We had a close friendship. My b-day was on Firday and he remembers my b-day and I receive a cute bear from him. But I am scare to talk to him righ now. Should I call? I did text him a ty. I am so confuse. I think I "may" like him.

2007-03-12 04:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 2

My boyfriend is the sweetest guy I've met, but his best friend is a real jerk. He was harrasing me (the friend) and I told my boyfriend about it, he talked to him, but did practically nothing else. What should I do? Just leave it, or is it a real problem? Help!

2007-03-12 04:19:02 · 5 answers · asked by Blondie 1

okay, i like him, he likes me, we haven't talked about it w/ each other, but he told my friend he did, and i told the same friend i did. we keep sitting by each other and flirting, and stuff like that, but what's some cute stuff to do to him? like would he like if i maybe "fixed his collar" or something? what's some ideas???

2007-03-12 04:18:32 · 10 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3

when u tell a guy your feelings he gets really stupid n sometimes breaks up with you

2007-03-12 04:18:31 · 17 answers · asked by cookieluvers15 1

Hey, ok...My girlfriend is being a real PAIN IN THE ***! Every little thing that I do wrong, she makes it into a HUGE situation. I let her get away with almost everything that she does wrong....Talking to her X even though she doesn't let me talk to mine...etc. etc. I don't really know what to do...I mean I'm trying so hard on making it work out and she just seems to be trying to find every little thing to ruin what i try to create. I mean whenever i invite her over after school, she brings up something that i DID wrong...even if its not talking to her with a group of friends...and she makes it into something HUGE and she just throws all of my plans out the window. I don't really know what she does...but it seems like as if she is doing something behind my back...Any suggestions BESIDES breaking up with her?

2007-03-12 04:18:12 · 1 answers · asked by routonboy 1