Singles & Dating - 9 March 2007

Ok, theres this girl I've known since I was 7, and we always had strong feelings for eachother, and last year I asked her on a date, and we went out for afew months, but then she left me because she said she had feelings for someone else.She soon found out that the boy she had feelings for already had a girlfriend, so within a week she had started going out with one of my friends, but it didnt work out. Now, a month after they broke up, she sends me an E-mail telling me she still has feelings for me and is really sad and sorry really wants to get back together, and that she understands if I don't want to. When I read this I got butterflies in my stomach and I'm not sure why. Should I get back together with her??

2007-03-09 16:13:31 · 13 answers · asked by Mr.Right 2

how do i keep a conversation going with a girl? all i ever think about is car stuff and i know she doesn't like listening to all of that......... so if you can please help me i would appreciate it......

2007-03-09 16:11:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is now dating her old bf

2007-03-09 16:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I really like a good friend but don't know if he likes me, how can I find out? I'm scared to death of asking him out because if he rejects I'd be so uncomfortable around him, and if we did go bf/gf I'm afraid we wouldn't have the same fun and joke around like friends. What should I do? I've known him for a while.

2007-03-09 16:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by MynameisIdontcare a 1

Im a good looking guy and Im not afraid to approach a female.

Im talking to this girl and its going good, giving me hints and we eat lunch together 3 times a week. Once i touched her butt while i was cleaning some lint off her jacket and flirting and she laughed and told me the next day that she didnt mind me touching her like that but not to go too far.....

But being me i dont like to have to do EVERYTHING to make things work so i expect the girl to do her part and keep flirting, but they NEVER do, then it gets weird because i wont push the issue and suddenly she seems silent and weird, then we just stop talking because i don't want to seem a perv (so i stop flirting) then she gets kinda silent mad and we stop speaking forever...

the end.

Why does this KEEP happening over and over to me...?

Why wont a girl keep flirting so i know how far i can go?

Help!

2007-03-09 16:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by Its me 4

i asked you guys about how could you tell whether a friend is trying to ask you out, because he could just want to hang out...
but all of you said, he likes me and meant to ask me out ... (i turned him down every single time though, because i had some issues going on)

anyway, all that happened last year, and we still talk and i have invited him to go out to dinner, coffee etc with me, but it was pretty casual....
but like i really like him now, and i am not sure if he likes me anymore ... one thing though, whenever i invite him to anything, he sure does show up... even if it's last moment
but he is sort of bad at keeping touch, because he is usually very busy, so i dont blame him that much
i dont know, help me people!!

2007-03-09 16:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by rose 1

How did you know that you were in Love, how did you meet the person you fell in love with??

Did you fall in Love with a childhood friend?
Someone you met randomly?
Online?

Just curious, my friend thinks he's in love but i can't help him realize if he is or isn't, seeing as how i've never been in love...

2007-03-09 16:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1

I like this guy, we're both super sporty I was even on his twin sis's b-ball team, and we're both in AP classes. I'm not sure if he likes me. Right now he seem s to be in to older girls. Do I ask him out or no?

2007-03-09 16:05:39 · 5 answers · asked by beachykeen8 2

What are some signs that a girl might be afraid to commit to a long term relationship? What might she say or how would she act? I think my ex broke up with me because she was afraid of commitment but I'm just trying to put the pieces together. Any help would be appreciated

2007-03-09 16:05:26 · 4 answers · asked by Sad 1

first of all, despite what the profile says, i am a girl. do guys prefer flirty but "ditzy" girls or inteligent less outgoing girls. lets just say they are both equally hot.

2007-03-09 16:05:13 · 4 answers · asked by greenfrankk 2

wat do u do wen ur horny ?? juz wondering

2007-03-09 16:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 and I have two guys who I am fwb (friends with benefits) with. am i to young or is it ok.
p.s. we haven't had sex and I don't plan on it, we just play around.

2007-03-09 16:04:55 · 13 answers · asked by love21 1

everyone keeps telling me i look like ashley olsen when she was younger (16) the thing is at first i didnt pay much attention to it but now i have people coming up to me asking for my autograph, a picture and i even had people stalk me. i h8 the attention, its so creepy and embarrassing to tell people that im not her. also most guys that come up to me start talking with either one of these lines... hi, i was just noticing how familiar you look but i dont think we've ever met or they simply say... hey you look like tht olsen chick.... ehhhh its really annoying but my friends think im really lucky. i dont know...should i change my reaction to this and think of it as being flattering????? i really dont want to change my style or who i am ..what should i do?

2007-03-09 16:03:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just ran across a telephone number for the "friend" of a love I lost. We got separated through circumstances that I believe were beyond our control. He was Serbian. He'd only been in America for four years. His mother was elderly and he returned home. Then things went very downhill. She died. He kept promising to return, but never did. Month after month I waited, while at the same time enduring a great deal of hardship, pain and loss myself. After that I relocated to another state. A few months ago I called Serbia and reached someone who spoke English at his number. I could tell she was elderly. She said he'd returned to America. She took my number. I've heard nothing.
Tonight I ran across the "friend's" number. He was very discouraging to our relationship. He was much older and bitter about his own breakup with a woman of my race. Should I follow this "new lead" and call anyway? I'm still in love. My love was not very wordly. He wouldn't know how to look for me.

2007-03-09 16:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by amazingly intelligent 7

Okay I was souposed to have a date with my best friends brother and he canceled on me tonight at the last minute he was suposed to come over at 9:15pm and we reshoulded for monday night i hope that he doesn't cancel on me again.

2007-03-09 16:00:52 · 7 answers · asked by lilmnshorty2006 1

2007-03-09 16:00:17 · 8 answers · asked by sugars peanut 1

girls does anyone have any tips on how to get your man...and guys what are some things that makes you want a girl

2007-03-09 15:59:55 · 2 answers · asked by madaboutyou55 2

The other day this attractive woman gave me her card and told me to call her sometime if I wanted to get together or just talk so I gave her a call a couple days later I got her answering machine so I left a messege and my home and cell phone and it's been a couple days and I haven't heard anything back I would call her again but I don't want to seem desprite what should I do?

2007-03-09 15:59:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.. well i kinda know if a girl likes me but what are signs that shes not interested in relationship with you

2007-03-09 15:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by anotherguy 1

i'm 16 and i'm a nice girl. but..... guys only see me as "just a friend." im not like the sporty tom boy like, im normal. but im a humorous type person, do guys not like that in girlfriend material? i just need to know is there something thats like ehhh about funny people or some pointers would be nice...

2007-03-09 15:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean just physically...
mentally..
emotionally...?
We've been together for a long time and I want to marry him and he does too.
I want to make him/keep him really happy......

ideas??

2007-03-09 15:58:42 · 7 answers · asked by Wilder23 1

What would be the best and/or most effective way to approach a girl and ask her out?

2007-03-09 15:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I'll try to make it short even though it's a long story. My ex-boyfriend dumped me one year ago & we only dated for shotr while. We never had sex cz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. He would still contact me on msn even though HE ended it. 2 months ago he called me & planned a whole thing, a movie. Two days later he picked me up, we saw the movie, then he drove me home. I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time, he said "I wanna see u every once in awhile". I felt like the date was rushed so when i got home, I went on msn & said bye forever to him, he said sorry but I logged out. I went on msn a week later to apologize & he seemed very happy & fine & said he wasn't mad at all. Then he went on a trip. When he came back, i asked him on msn how it was & he told me. Then 2 weeks ago I said hi to him again & we chatted briefly. He does NOT initate converstaions on msn anymore yet he replied to me when I talked to him twice. Is he ignoring me, did I scare him?

2007-03-09 15:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1

So, Wednesday I was helping a close girl friend because her and her bf (now her EX) but I was helping her with her relationship with him and I gave her the advice that she might need to break up with him cause he treated her bad. But anyway she told me she liked me and I told her I liked her to because I do. She was already broken up with her bf before she said that. But the next day everyone was really mad at us because what had happened the day b4. Her now ex is my friend or was my friend but I'm askin should I go out with this girl because I like her ALOT but should I mess up a friendship to go out with this girl??

2007-03-09 15:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by Will 1

Should I get out while I dont have much invested?

2007-03-09 15:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ minainchi♥ 2

i really like this guy and want to get to know him (as more than frends) he is in the class room nexed to me i really really like this guy i am always catching him glanceing at me and smileing at me we had to sing together (he played gutaur i sang) and after we where done he told me i was a good singer and looked good doing it everyone said he is perfect for me and i think so to i really want to get to know him how should i talk to him and let him know i am interested and do you think i should make a move or wait for him plze help me this guy is so freaken hot and has a great personalaty i cant do anything without thinking of him i really need some sdvice thak you soooooo much!!!!

2007-03-09 15:56:14 · 2 answers · asked by joi 2

2007-03-09 15:56:01 · 6 answers · asked by Rich 3

it's just another stupid question.

2007-03-09 15:55:43 · 23 answers · asked by Brandon 1

A guy i like gave my friend his number for me so i text him today and he asked if i want to meet up next week for a drink,i will see him tomorrow in his work and we`ll arrange then but we sent texts all day and night as we`re both a bit shy anyway,he then phoned me tonight,what do you think,is there a chance he likes me?advice appreciated,thanx.

2007-03-09 15:55:33 · 19 answers · asked by onlyme 5

meaning that you wanted to marry her. she broke up with you and then found a guy 3 days later and that break up was on good terms. we still have a great conversation i know she still loves and i love her. how do i say goodbye. is it possible?

2007-03-09 15:54:43 · 4 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3