Should I call?

Question

I just ran across a telephone number for the "friend" of a love I lost. We got separated through circumstances that I believe were beyond our control. He was Serbian. He'd only been in America for four years. His mother was elderly and he returned home. Then things went very downhill. She died. He kept promising to return, but never did. Month after month I waited, while at the same time enduring a great deal of hardship, pain and loss myself. After that I relocated to another state. A few months ago I called Serbia and reached someone who spoke English at his number. I could tell she was elderly. She said he'd returned to America. She took my number. I've heard nothing.
Tonight I ran across the "friend's" number. He was very discouraging to our relationship. He was much older and bitter about his own breakup with a woman of my race. Should I follow this "new lead" and call anyway? I'm still in love. My love was not very wordly. He wouldn't know how to look for me.

Answer 1

of course it wouldnt hurt to call him, and try to find your friend. "Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained". If things are not the same, so be it. But you never know until you try...theBerean

Answer 2

call. if you don't you might regret a "lost love" twice in a lifetime and that is not cool.

what can be the worst thing that he is happy. just call and find out. nothing to lose right

Answer 3

You must as a true love doesn't see a barrier. And I am sure he will come back to you... Best of luck

Answer 4

go 4 it girl

Answer 5

Call Call Call Call Call
Go for it, If not you might regret it!

Answer 6

I say call him and see if you guys can meet again and rekindle that old flame.

Answer 7

yes go ahead --call him let him know how you feel best of luck!

Answer 8

I think that you should call.