How did you know that you were in Love, how did you meet the person you fell in love with??
Did you fall in Love with a childhood friend?
Someone you met randomly?
Online?
Just curious, my friend thinks he's in love but i can't help him realize if he is or isn't, seeing as how i've never been in love...
2007-03-09 16:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've loved my childhood friend forever. I don't even know how it happened. We were just little children and we were playing cards, or dominoes, or something. Then IT has hit me and I still love her.
Yes, you can fall in love with a childhood friend.
Yes, it's possible to fall in love with someone you have met randomly.
No, I think it is impossible to do so online. That person might lie to you and break your heart. You do have to see that person's face/eyes physically. No, virtual love is only virtual. It can never be true.
2007-03-13 11:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by grigam2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, like, lust and in love are 4 different things.
Love comes with age and wisdom- i am a firm believer in that. When you are young you may think that the person whom you are with is the whole world- that there is nothing besides them. I call that love.
Liking is when you are with someone but really cannot picture yourself with that person forever.
Lust is when you get all hot n bothered when you see them- all you can think about is how hot they are etc.
In love is a whole new level. It is when you give yourself fully to that person, trust them with yourself and give them 100% of yourself. you hide nothing, you support them 100% and you are thier best friend. You dont care if they burp or pass gas, and you are ther ewhen they are sick, hurt, happy, sad, glad or angry. You are able to work out problems and no jealousy is involved. That person is dedicated to you mentally, physically, financially and spiritually. You share some of the same goals. You have a plan for the future and actively work towards it. yeah thats in love.
It took me 11 years, and 3 marriage proposals before I found the man who completes me. I am totally 100% in love with him. I trust him with all my heart, i listen to him, i caer for him, i feed him and i cry with him if need be. I am his leg when he finds it hard to walk- he is my back when i cant stand up straight.
Love is a powerful thing. If you have no idea how to work it- then things never turn out right.
BTW- I actually met my Fiance by chance- I had went out for the first time in like 10 months after the breakup of my last relationship- vowed never to talk to men again. He was at the place I happened to go to, struck up a conversation, exchanged #'s and he left. The next day all i could think about was him. We met up later that night- had a 4 hour conversation about everything!! I realized he was the one for me at that moment. Time passed and we were seeing each other as "friends" (he was seeing others at the time). We were driving one day and the conversation led to him telling me he couldnt give me what i wanted (i wanted stability). I said I know- thats why it didnt bother me. I guess tht caught him off guard because within a few hours he called me to apologize and said he couldnt picture his life without me in it. From that point on we were exclusive dating. Now we are engaged- and will be married REALLY soon...
2007-03-10 00:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in love twice. The first man I fell in love with, I was friends with him throughout my childhood. Then we dated through high school. The second man I fell in love with, I met him in a chat room... turned out he lived like a mile down the street from me. You know that you are in love with someone when you feel that you can't live without them, and you would die for them. Hope this helps.
2007-03-10 00:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by WTF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell in love with a boy i knew since kindergarten. we weren't friends till 6th grade, we were both the stars of the play and it brought us together. We liked each other through middle school and in high school we were going out for a year and a half. I knew i loved him because i thought of him whenever i had a spare thought. I woke up thinking about him and fell asleep thinking about him. I talked about him non stop to my parents and friends and we were together whenever possible. Also we were very open with each other. It ended, but all things do. I don't deny for a second that i loved him though.
2007-03-10 00:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I fell in love and I think I am still in love... When I was 11, I used to be a popular girl in school, but my popularity was wasting my life. So Grandma taught me of how to fall in love with this unique attitude... So, I then tried it out and tried to master the task, which I did. I realized my popularity was coming back to me while I continued to cultivate my love for this particular attitude... At the end of my success I was rewarded the BEST English student in school, the BEST Math student, and the BEST behaving female of the year.
Because I became so enlightened in school, I was invited on a Cheer-leading Team, a highschool Basketball Team... After I became so popular again, I realized I was in love, yes, in love with my school work. I wanted to be better, more powerful and educated. Today I am 14 and considered the brightest student in school... I am definitely in love...
Because I am now the brightest student in school, this offers me a lot of enemies, especially female enemies, because all the smart guys are interested to hang out with me and gather themselves in my company.
2007-03-10 00:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Disabled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i've been in love. Just the way that person holds you, with his arms around you and your arms around his waist and his cheek against your head. He said the feeling of my hair on his cheek stayed there for 10 minutes after we held each other. We both had our first kiss on valentines day, that was sooo incredibly nice. We still are together today, and can't stay away from each other. We show that we do love each other and take action into it. Showing love is showing that you care for each other very much.
2007-03-17 21:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jen â?¥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fall in love in anyway....either childhood friend,online or after meeting randomly....
I fell in love for my fiance's innocence....any person has a weak point in their heart....some times it can be for beauty, some times it can be coz the great friendship and understanding....
when you are in love you will tend to do the following....
You can FEEL IT IN YOUR ACTIONS WITH YOUR PARTNER....
You will be smiling all the time when your partner is talking with you....
You will spend enough and more time to be with him/her....
You will walk slowly when he/she walks with you....
You will call or msg in the middle of the night just say hello and to say "I Love you"....
You would be willing to share anything with you....
You would put him/her before his best friends....
You will share your deep little secrets with him/her....
You will do the things he/she likes to do....
You will tell often that you love him/her....
You will not mind giving up your time to hang out with him/her....
You will want to spend a lot of time with him/her....
Mainly you will try to suprise him/her as many times as possible ...
That means you are romantically involved with him/her
2007-03-10 00:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by banju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi um You know when you just get butterflies in your stomach and you feel happy.and my name is kiran and you don't recognize me because i changed my avatar but you had asked me how long i was going out with someone online and I didn't have your email to answer you so i didn't.i have been going out for about 2 weeks.if you have any more questions check out my profile and email me.
have a nice day.
2007-03-12 19:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was online, but maybe it was just a crush. And he was someone I met randomly.
2007-03-10 00:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by MynameisIdontcare a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are in love you care about NOTHING all you want is his attention.....every time you'll try and catch his glance and when he isn't watching you take many quick glances and giggle after wards......if you happen to smile at him and he smiles back at you, your heart will just give you a signal that melts your face into a pile of giggles.....then when he's near, you'll try to let him look at you and try to NOT look at him....just some more quick glances. every thing is just about him....trust me i've kinda been through there.
2007-03-10 00:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by miss kiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋