she is now dating her old bf
2007-03-09 16:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That would be hard. That is why most people say they will not date people they work with. You could be an adult about it and just be civilized and correspond when necessary. You shouldn't go around talking bad about her behind her back even though she deserves it. If people ask, only your good friends, you can confide, otherwise, it is just office gossip and nobody else's business.
She knows what she did wrong and you being the faithful person should try to forgive her so that you can move on. If you hang on to it, you will not be open to someone else who comes into your life. You don't have to forget what she did and you don't have to be her friend, but you should forgive her so your heart will be lighter and you will be able to move on. You will find someone who is faithful and loyal and who will only love you and have eye only for you. Unfortunately, we have to come in contact with these in order to appreciate the real one when he/she comes along.
Here is a website on forgiveness: http://www.livingthesolution.com/artofforgiveness.htm
Is forgiveness an art? Yes. It takes a lot of time to discipline your character to actually forgive others. All of us have someone we don't like. Some of us may even have people we hate and want to see dead.
How about the woman who cheats on her husband one time? The guy that borrowed $10 and never repaid it? The mother-in-law who called you a moron? The thief that turned out to be your brother? Should you carry around a grudge against them forever? Should you continually be looking for ways to "get back" at them and ruin your self-worth in the process?
Forgiving someone is NOT bowing down to them. In fact, hate is an emotion just like love is. However, if you have NO emotion for a person, this is even worse than having hate for them. Hate is still an emotion but no emotion is an even bigger put down. So, if we concentrate on blocking the individual's actions from our minds completely (and normally this requires help from God to do), or if we forget about getting revenge and carrying around hate — we will establish peace within ourselves and not suffer the mental state inflicted upon us by seeking revenge and hate.
So if you want revenge, try to work on blocking the actions of another person out of your mind completely so hate doesn't engulf you and those around you. With patience, you will see the person (who did you wrong) getting paid back for their sins. It's inevitable!
Their own actions will cause them to miss the mark, fail at relationships and be torn up inside from turmoil, unrest and loneliness. And these things are much more detrimental than anything you could do to them — ever! Always remember that God is fair, but only in His own time!
2007-03-09 16:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by lineback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U HAVE 2 choices
1.you can dump her and ignore her
and
2.you can cheat right back
2007-03-09 16:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know she was dating her ex-boyfriend?you said she cheated you,and how you find out?u checked her mobile or you followed her?is the matter of trust then love exist..so ask her directly,tell her is not a big deal for dating her ex..just because you love her and put a trust on her..
2007-03-09 16:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by raney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything, she is the one who f'ed up.Don't give her the time of day, she's not a good friend so move on find some one is actually worth your time and effort.peace
2007-03-09 16:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that mate tough luck if I were you sleep with her best friend oh or even better sleep with her mother oh sleep with both HAVE A THREE WAY
2007-03-09 16:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shotgun.
Shovel.
2007-03-09 16:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to ignore her and move on
2007-03-09 16:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋