Should I get back together with her?

Question

Ok, theres this girl I've known since I was 7, and we always had strong feelings for eachother, and last year I asked her on a date, and we went out for afew months, but then she left me because she said she had feelings for someone else.She soon found out that the boy she had feelings for already had a girlfriend, so within a week she had started going out with one of my friends, but it didnt work out. Now, a month after they broke up, she sends me an E-mail telling me she still has feelings for me and is really sad and sorry really wants to get back together, and that she understands if I don't want to. When I read this I got butterflies in my stomach and I'm not sure why. Should I get back together with her??

Answer 1

No one can answer that question except you, but I can tell you as a women, she is only wanting to get back with you because she is alone. Your secure to her. The guy she can count on. Once she finds someone else more interesting to her she will dump you again. A girl worth your time does not break up with you and go out with your friend. You could just hang out with her and see how things go. I wouldn't get exclusive until she shows you that shes really is into you. Also, this way you are open to date other people whatever you decide to do, make her prove herself to you don't rush into anything . .Good luck

Answer 2

No I don't think so. It seems that she only wants you because no one else wants her. She is just using you as a rebound thing and you don't need a relationship like that at all. There are plenty of women out there who will want you for no other reason but to want you. Don't get caught into her rebounding web. Be strong.

Answer 3

I think you should find someone who will give the relationship a chance. This girl went out with two other guys and since those relationships didn't work out, she decides to give you another try. I think if she hurt you once, she'll hurt you again.

Answer 4

No!! she is playing left overs with you. SHe went to see if she could find someone else, and now that she didint, she wants to get back with you. Neways and they always use the phrase "i understand if you dont want to" which works 95% of the time

Answer 5

No. I am sure she's just using you to get somneone else, or be something of a replacement until something comes along. I know yoou have a crush on her still, som it's up to you. You must try to keep her with youif you want to. Good luck!

Answer 6

i think that you may feel that since you have feeling for her
for such a long time that this might work out. but think about]it
she has gone with others now she want to get back with you
sound like she know how you feel , and she play that you
will take her back. but she may do what she did again if
you get back with her. you deserve to have someone that
will give there heart to you and you along.

Answer 7

No way man.she is playing you like a flute.A good old saying.."Fool me once shame on you,Fool me twice same shame on you.Fool me 3 times SHAME ON ME."its not wirth it in the long run buddy.she is using you because she is desperate and is using you as a rebound.just forget about her and find someone else.In other word she dosnt exist.

Answer 8

i say give it a shot, BUT let her know that you're hesitant. Tell her that you like her but you don't want her to drop you for another person just like that. Just be open with her and tell her how you feel, and it should work itself out! Hope it helps!

Answer 9

I'd take it slow, and don't rush into a sexual relationship. You don't know who she's been with, or who THEY have been with, right? In this day & age, you are a fool if you sleep with someone you know has "been around", but if you take your time, you'll know when its right, and if its safe.

Answer 10

if you believe in second chances, then just go for it, i mean, it can't hurt to try, besides you didnt get butterflies in your stomach for no reason.!