Should I get out while I dont have much invested?
2007-03-09 15:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ minainchi♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get out now lol
sry but you can probably find someone you will love as much/connect better with at your age/level
and equally, I'm sure he'll find someone who is better-suited to be a mother in the age department.
You should enjoy your youth and take up that responsibility when you're ready.
Good luck!! =)
2007-03-09 16:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has a child and I am 5 years younger. I am 19 and he is 24. I love him SO much and my family disagrees with my choice totally simply because he does have a child. If you love him, stay. But if you do not love him and you feel like this would harm your relationship, then maybe you should reconsider things. There is no point in leading him on if you don't have true feelings for him. Consider and evaluate why you are with him. You have to accept and love those children if you love him, because they are his children. Good luck with everything and God bless!
2007-03-10 00:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would think about the future. dose he still want kids can you handle the responsibility of also helping to raise someones kids that are not your own. About him being 9 years older than you, age is nothing but a number its the kids that may be an issue.
2007-03-10 00:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdiamonds18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're asking this question tells me that you are not comfortable enough with this relationship and all the responsibilities and "stuff" that comes with it to let it evolve into anything really good. You should probably bail since it doesn't sound like you want to deal with all of it.
2007-03-10 00:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him stay, kids can be fun 2 =)
2007-03-10 00:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by 5789854322379 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay. i am 19 and my wife is 26. she had 2 children already and i knew that. i had no kids. we got married and have had a wonderful life so far. you should give him a chance. you may learn to love it like i have. good luck and God bless
2007-03-10 00:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by sugars peanut 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IMO
Depends on if you are being realistic.
No relationship last very long these days.
Ask yourself, "whats the point of this that i am doing now"?.
2007-03-10 00:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then you will stay with him
2007-03-10 00:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him stay with him!
2007-03-10 00:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by brazycan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love hem alot stay if you don't leave hem you need to fallow your heart
2007-03-10 00:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by william w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋