i asked you guys about how could you tell whether a friend is trying to ask you out, because he could just want to hang out...
but all of you said, he likes me and meant to ask me out ... (i turned him down every single time though, because i had some issues going on)
anyway, all that happened last year, and we still talk and i have invited him to go out to dinner, coffee etc with me, but it was pretty casual....
but like i really like him now, and i am not sure if he likes me anymore ... one thing though, whenever i invite him to anything, he sure does show up... even if it's last moment
but he is sort of bad at keeping touch, because he is usually very busy, so i dont blame him that much
i dont know, help me people!!
2007-03-09 16:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this seems very basic but thats ok : ) since you dont know at all what he feels for you ask him out on a real date when you have the chance. this is a simple move. this will give you an opportunity to be more positive. go to dance or a nice fancy dinner OR the nice kool one...a fair or carnival.
2007-03-09 16:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by yay i love that word 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the LOVE OF GOD... just ask the dude if he likes you and tell him first that you like him, and then see what happens. You never know unless you ASK. What's the worst that could happen ? Awkwardness ? You'll get over it. If it messes up your friendship, then you never had a strong one to begin with. SO...what are you gunna do ? Sit around forever...waiting on fate to make things happen ? Doesn't work that way, not always. Go for it.
2007-03-09 16:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think your question itself contains your answer. He does show-up definitely suggests, he likes or enjoys your company. You must invite him for dinner/ coffee but try to be direct and find out what he thinks about you... All the best
2007-03-09 16:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by unimnd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is definitely a chance i mean the worst thing that could happen is say that he would rather stay friends but i think the whole even last minute thing shows he cares and wants to be there for you.
2007-03-09 16:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him how you really felt? I know some might not do this because they might later regret it. Another be patient and continue to figure him out. Each time you hang out continue to ask questions to see were he is in his mind.
2007-03-09 16:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from personal expeirence you totally ruined it for yourself he wether he likes you or not he is going to be terrified to even thing about asking you out ever again. Try winning him over by showing him how much you like him, give him courage to step forward don't scare him away, by throwing yourself at him it will only push him away.
2007-03-09 16:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we gave you advice before and you didn't take it, don't come back asking another question about the same dag on thing. LOL
2007-03-09 16:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS answer is so simple
ASK HIM OUT!
2007-03-09 16:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this kid named ross or are you named ross and actually gay?
2007-03-09 16:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Saget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋