i'm 16 and i'm a nice girl. but..... guys only see me as "just a friend." im not like the sporty tom boy like, im normal. but im a humorous type person, do guys not like that in girlfriend material? i just need to know is there something thats like ehhh about funny people or some pointers would be nice...
2007-03-09 15:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
problem is- im not the really flirting type: pointers please :(
tell me something that gets them going or something i can do to make them be like woahhh ashley....
2007-03-09 16:10:55 · update #1
be yourself, if he doesent like you for that then move on and fine someone who will, you just have to be honest or it wont be true love
2007-03-09 16:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're funny, I'm guessing you're outgoing. And if you're outgoing, I'm guessing you have a lot of friends. And if you have a lot of friends, I'm going to go ahead and guess that you have a lot of guy friends.
When girls have a lot of guy friends, it tends to become the norm that a guy to hang out with her. And because of this, they don't really see her as more than a friend. They probably just think that SHE'S the one not interested because of this.
So I'd suggest that for whoever you're interested in, be flirty, and make sure that they know that you're not just looking for another guy friend. Show off your humorous side, because laughing can be a big part of flirting.
And if you hold back now and show it off later, they may see you as a poser, which is never good. So be yourself and you'll find someone who appreciates that.
2007-03-10 00:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by abcdefgh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lecture is very poor. Observe to your lessons instead of thinking about men. Good men don't need illiterate girls.
To improve yourself so men can notice you, cultivate your lecture, grades and quality... Once you have done that I am guaranteed you'll be the most popular girl in town.
As far as now, you seem very far away from being a quality teenager.
I'm just 14
2007-03-10 00:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Disabled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun if that is your only problem you are lucky. Wait until guys are interested in you then you are going to be wishing they weren't due to all the drama surrounding them. Your in high school, you need to focus on friends (girls), having fun, and school......forget about the guys you have your entire life to worry about them. Enjoy it without them........don't worry....feel lucky!
2007-03-10 00:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using seductive eyes and a heated conversation next time you talk to a guy and see if that works.
2007-03-10 00:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by I'm learning. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a variety, I know, becuase there is(is it are? I'm not sure.....) a variety of guys. You just have to find the right one who likes you for YOU. Do not change for a guy, you'll regret it.
2007-03-10 00:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. dont act like their "mommy". one mom at home is enough. and sometimes having a boyfriend is not the best thing in the world
2007-03-10 00:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by sherly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard-to-get.
2007-03-10 00:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by sunshinegrl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what its better to be liked naturally for you and not with what you pretend to be just so they would notice you. it would be happier for someone to notice you because youre beautiful that way , without even having to change for anybody.
2007-03-10 00:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me just be who you are and don't settle for any guy who wants you to be less than that.
2007-03-10 00:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋