Singles & Dating - 7 March 2007

My first sexal experience was when I was 12. My little sister had a babysitter (a college girl - around 21) whose boyfriend was supposed to come over and hang out with her, but he was drinking at a friends house, apparently.

She got mad and started talking to me:
"Have you ever kissed a girl?" and "Haveyou ever done it?"

I was a good looking kid (still am) and she went on and on and to make a long story short, she "showed" me how to kiss, french kiss, wht a BJ was and what it felt like "inside" of a girl!

I know, I know, these days that's called "molestation."

But I gotta tell you, it was the greatest day of my life!!! She was hot, had a fantastic body, and I was in paradise! and I'm certainly no worse for the wear! I'm as normal as rain.

But my question is this:
If the tables had been turned, and the babysitter was a boy and the 12 y.o. was a girl, why is that worse in the eyes of society?

I mean, looking back, it was just freakishly good luck!

2007-03-07 21:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by The Burninator 1

i've had friends ask him out for me but he always says no i need some advice! how should i ask him?

2007-03-07 21:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Over the weekend the guy i have liked for the last yr told me he liked me too. He broke up with his girl after a huge fight.. I know they were not happy anyway and he was just lookin for a way out. He asked me why i never told him how i felt and all i could say was i didnt know. But the reason was because one of our mutual friends kept puttin me down on him. She said things like u know it will never work u will never be with him....... if u tell him u will loose him completly... So i kept my mouth shut. She even had the nerve to tell me he went back to his ex last night tryin to get me mad. {which totally worked} and i asked him and he told me no. Why does she not want to see us together she has an ol man. And how am i Supposed to talk to him and go about all this. He has told me he loves me and i am the only one he wants.. there r kids involved he has a nine yr old and i Have a two yr old and they love us together. She even calls him dad!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME OUT ON THIS.....

2007-03-07 21:31:03 · 15 answers · asked by ann 1

if someone ask you out what will you say??
1youngman older than me only 1 year and half he asked me out but i say no, and he ask me again i say don't know yet. we just met each other only nearly 1 month. next day he asked me for my mobile number, he took a paper and a pen out for me to write my number, then i said let me think first, 5mins later i still not write my number. then he said write you number down please, i said no! because i don't trust him. next day he go to my father and asked to take me out. next day he came up to see me and i was not please, but he was happy to see me, he dressed smart looking good. i like him a bit but i am worried that he does not really love me.
what will you do, and what should i tell him if he carry on asking me out again??? sould i take this chance or...???

2007-03-07 21:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by GonE 3

i asked a this hot and sexy guy out last week
and he said, "sorry i have a boyfriend, i'm gay."
i was like "umm..... yeah good for you, i have to go.........." then i spyed on him and i saw the whole thing!
this other hot guy came and they were like kissing and kissing!
it was very disturbing for me.
he didn't look or talk gay at all.
how can i make this not happen again???
why are gay guyz so fu*cking hot?

2007-03-07 21:28:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

find it difficult to get a boyfriend? I have a friend like this, and sarah is it seems is just wanted for one thing by men.
I am a straight man by the way.

2007-03-07 21:26:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I'm 25, went out clubbing @ WKEND (I know I shoulden't be doing that at my age!!), met a nice guy, good looking, real gent, he took my number, been txting/talking and he asked me out....all good! Found out yesterday only 19yrs old and at college...I feel a bit weird about it all, what do you think?...

2007-03-07 21:26:24 · 23 answers · asked by money bank 1

hi i liv in dlhi .doing buisness. nw fling alone ,depresed .want company of gud freind.

2007-03-07 21:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by gagan g 1

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I have gotten online so many times to try to diagnose my boyfriends problem. I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't find the answer. My boyfriend wouldn't have sex with me in the first few months of our relationship, which I was okay with. But it upset me when he wasn't eager to be sexual with me, but I always found porn on his computer, & he always looked at girls. It made me feel kind of unattractive. After a while I finally convinced him... He is 30 years old... to have sex with me... I also found out that he was a virgin at 30! He masturbated a lot, but he doesn't masturbate like everyone else. He said when he was young he tried doing it the way that you are "supposed" to, with a fist and an up and down motion, but he said it just felt weird and he didn't like it. This is what I was used to when masturbating anybody I was with. But he likes to have the skin right below the head of his penis pulled and almost pinched and rubbed. He has a lot of excess skin, and he likes it pulled tightly and then the extra skin almost "massaged". He doesn't like the up and down, and if you stop touching his penis, he loses his erection quickly. We have tried to have sex, but we are very unsuccessful since he doesn't like the up and down motion, and I obviously can't pull his skin with my vagina. He has a large penis, and it is hard to get it in, then it starts to lose its hardness, and we can't do it anyway. It makes me feel very unsuccessful as a lover and a woman. I love him, and he is very emotionally supportive, but I am just so terrified we won't have a sex life EVER! It has been 3 years of no sex, and it is not his fault, he has tried... but I don't know what is wrong with him, or why he can't do it the normal way, and why I can't help him. I want to have kids, and with no intercourse, that isn't happening... I was wondering if this could be a form of Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome? If that is what it is... what can I do about it? I am still so lost... I just want to make love to the man I love without having problems and getting frustrated... Because it hurts both of us...
Thanks...

2007-03-07 21:25:28 · 2 answers · asked by JadeEyez 1

2007-03-07 21:22:37 · 2 answers · asked by momado 5 1

what do u reckon a 15yr old guy thinks about?

2007-03-07 21:20:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-07 21:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by sweets 2

she's pregnant,(when we havent gone ALL the way yet), has sores on her crotch, and comes home with some "gluey" type substance on her face or in her hair just about every nite...help!

2007-03-07 21:18:56 · 12 answers · asked by 8-tentacles-of-AAnsweroni 1

Mark it if woman is not satisfied sexually after marriage, there is irritation that what develop in her. She might have histeria, and in late ages heart problem. should she choose to have safe sex with her boy friends.

2007-03-07 21:15:37 · 23 answers · asked by larry G 2

If a guy looks at you twice, assuming that there's nothing on your face or on your shirt, why would he take a second glance at you?

2007-03-07 21:14:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 42 and have only ever been in two long term relationships. Until I met HIM. Well, its been going on for 3 months now and I know I am getting attached. I told him the other night that I want to remain his friend, he is one of the good guys you know, so have stopped the 'other' thing. I am kicking myself now, although I don't want to end up getting hurt and attached, I know I could really fall for him and as much as he cares for me (just comes round to give me a hug when I am low, and we talk for hours), I know I am not the one for him. Hand on heart, it would never work long term.
Gentle advice please on getting over this, the sex was great, he is great and although he tells me I am great, I know the 'click' isn't there for him.
Thanks you guys.

2007-03-07 21:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by Andrea 2

ok i have a bestfriend since 7th grade and just recently he left his gf of 3 years to actually start talking to me than more than bestfriends he would call me all the time and we hang out alomst everyday...but not even 2 weeks later he went back to his gf and he said we couldnt talk or even be friends anymore...do u think he cares about me and likes me more than bestfriends......

2007-03-07 21:13:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the deal. When i first meet a woman everything is all good. But after we have sex, it seems that's all they want from me or they want to marry me based on sex. Will I ever find true love?

2007-03-07 21:12:26 · 7 answers · asked by jalanmichael 1

I have just come back from my holiday to vist my familey. I had a fantasic time and met really nice people but i when i came back to my boyfried it wasnt the same. I think i realised what i could have in a relationship while i was away. There is not spark between us anymore I dont know if i love him.
I have been with him 4 years now and i cant see myself without him as im used to him. I dont want to loose him as a friend either but he will not be friedns with me if we spilt he said he couldnt cope.
I met a guy over there that i got well with and cant get him out of my head. I will be over there quite often from now on as my mum know lives there. My boyfriend dosent want me to go back as he know of this close relationship.
I do dont no what to do. Im going back this month to see my mum n this guy to C how i feel should i see how i feel and make my desion or should i give it another go to see how it goes with my fella or should i end it and move on? Will things ever be the same?

2007-03-07 21:11:30 · 17 answers · asked by drinky16 3

2007-03-07 21:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by anubhav_55 3

2007-03-07 21:07:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there any hope (I'm 24)

2007-03-07 21:06:15 · 7 answers · asked by Maz 1

2007-03-07 21:06:04 · 3 answers · asked by anubhav_55 3

a conclusion and I was wrong. I appologised to him but I think he has turned off me. I explained what I was going through and he seem sympathetic but Im not sure where I stand with him now. What more can I do to rectify our relationship. I really like him and I know he really liked me before I did this. Please help.

2007-03-07 21:05:39 · 2 answers · asked by gudsport 2

There is this girl that i really like. People in the past and still do now mistake us as being bf and gf. I have feeling for this girl and her best friend told me that she had to her best friend that she had feelings for me and could c us goin to the next level. So when i found that out i thought stuff it im going to ask her out so i did. I asked her out and she said "i can c us being together but i want to spend time with u first and then c how it goes" so i left it at that. avout 3days after i asked her "have you thought about whether we should go out or not?" she said to me" im sorry but i dont see us working". The next day went back to normal still friends but very awkard!
The other day i invited her to my house and she came.We were sat watching TV in my room and she looked up at me and kissed me.We continued watching TV she then looked up at me again and kissed me a second time. And aventually we got to a third time but it was not just a kiss it was a pull.what does that mean?

2007-03-07 21:02:30 · 5 answers · asked by Randall 1

For instance same taste in music, activities, etc or dosent it matter? Would you want your woman to be your exact likeness as far as interests?

2007-03-07 21:01:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

just to let u all know that he is employed, maybe earning abit less than me, he stays with his mother and brothers, my question is how do I deal with him. at a bar, I pay for all the drinks coz half the time he has no money, he is sometimes off air and never shares stuff with me, but when he needs something he cant stop asking for it. he says he loves me but I am doubting this alot. I feel very bad

2007-03-07 20:59:53 · 20 answers · asked by supper Star bitch Slap 1

me and my girlfriend are coming to the stage where we are giving oral sex. she is a virgin, so i dont want to force her into anything. but i know that when we're in bed, she wants to be pleasured. i've fingered her, but i i think i was doing it too hard, but she still seemed to enjoy it, when i licked her out, i think she loved it, and i didnt find it too bad. but what techniques (if thats the right word) can i use to arouse/pleasure my girlfriend without having sex. also, girls, any tips on fingering that really feels good for u...? thanks all

2007-03-07 20:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

excuse my language but you know what i mean..

2007-03-07 20:58:27 · 8 answers · asked by Zeta 3

2007-03-07 20:57:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous