me and my girlfriend are coming to the stage where we are giving oral sex. she is a virgin, so i dont want to force her into anything. but i know that when we're in bed, she wants to be pleasured. i've fingered her, but i i think i was doing it too hard, but she still seemed to enjoy it, when i licked her out, i think she loved it, and i didnt find it too bad. but what techniques (if thats the right word) can i use to arouse/pleasure my girlfriend without having sex. also, girls, any tips on fingering that really feels good for u...? thanks all
2007-03-07 20:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
locate the clitoris and start doing little circular motions with your finger on the top of the skin that covers it.......be attentive to her reactions and speed or slow the action as needed.
fingering isn't that pleasurable, except when orgasm is nearly reached...so don't do it right to the start.
tend to push your finger toward the back of the body and be gentle......*.*......
2007-03-07 21:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by T-spooon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind when u fingering, that any penetration whats so ever feels a bit uncomfortable there.
What u do, while she still has her panties on, u use ur whole hand or four fingers together to gently rub over her, don't apply any pressure, feel for her c.l.i.t through the panties and do circular motions over it, then continue this, until u feel that she is hot, and wetter, then go inside, or take her panties off.
I say use 2fingers together not one(to make sure u don't go inside her), & gently rub her moisted lips, sliding slowly more inside her lips, dont push a finger inside her hole unless she askes u to.
To please her more, rub ur d*ck against her c.l.i.t &slighty inside her "lips".
With her panty on, u may dry-grind her, give her a massage (use oils etc), and alternate ur going down techniches (slow, fast, suck, blow, tongue rotate, deep, light...im sure u get the drift)
2007-03-08 05:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 11⤊ 0⤋
hey dude, ask your g/f what she likes.. not the whole public audience here.. some girls here are too young to know these things..
2007-03-08 05:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
ask her do what she likes if ur ready ask her if she is ready go for it
2007-03-08 05:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋