Serious responses only! My boyfriend and I are both in our 40's; he's younger than me, we've both been divorced; been together about a year-living together for most of that time. When we were first dating, he was somewhat romantic; now he barely is --and here's the delicate part -- I seem to be more experienced sexually, than he is--I'm able to satisfy him, no problem. I've tried to encourage him to touch me in the ways I like, but each time I try, he gets defensive, and I end up feeling frustrated. He's a very sweet guy otherwise -- actually, very affectionate in terms of kisses, hugs, etc. and is always there when I need him. But, he doesn't seem to find me "desirous" "attractive" -- he can touch me, but without much passion. I want him to "want me", and I'm at a loss as to how to go about it, so that he becomes enthused about our love life. He does have some arthritis in his hips, which does affect his mobility; I've offered to try different positions; he doesn't want to even try.
2007-02-27
08:08:44
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