theres this guy and hes 14 or 15. i just found out that he likes. hes sweet but im really not sure if i like him. hes becoming more appealing as i think about him but id kinda like someone else rite now. i would like to get to know him better just not on the boyfirend/girlfriend level. my parents and his parents are friends and we are going to see him this weekend. so should i give him my number is he asks even tho i don't like him. Wat if he doesn't ask for it. should i give it to him then. i don't wanna give him the wrong idea that i do like him but i would kinda like to get to know him better. and how do i give him my number if he doesnt ask for it. get my lil bro to do it for me. and i dont wanna give him the "girl make the1st move and being waay to presumptious."
2007-02-27 08:06:47 · 12 answers · asked by Liv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't ask don't give. If he asks give it to him. It's just a number...
2007-02-27 08:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's safer and much 'cooler' not to give away your number too easily. Ask him for his number instead!
He will either be flattered or he'll refuse. Never fear rejection. It's better to know where you stand than have a day dreamy head over a guy who might not be worth it after all.
When you are given the number, you have a little time to think what you want to say. This is much better than you giving your number and being caught out by his call and stuttering because you don't want to sound 'girly'.
Good luck and have fun
2007-02-27 08:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you've found out he likes you then giving him your number isn't to presumptious. You seem pretty confussled about the whole thing, so you should probably take a few minutes just to figure out what you want. If you want to just let things ride for a bit, i suggest giving him your number if he asks for it, but if he doesn't then don't. Simple enough really :)
2007-02-27 08:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not old enough to make the first move yet.
He can get your number from his parents if he wants it.
Chill out and just wait.
Now when you get to be 18 or 20 no boyfriend...then you can make the frist move.
Slow down, don't try and grow up too soon...you are only a teenager for 6 years...you are grown for about 70 more.
2007-02-27 08:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not interested then dont give him your number. a better way of trying to get to know him without making it seem like you are interested is to exchange screen names... u can get to know each other online and if you feel a connection then exchange numbers. if you dont... block him! jk... but if he asks and you want to give him your number, do it. he is like a family friend since your parents know each other. no harm in that.
2007-02-27 08:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by japzkyootipie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you don't like him why would you go out of your way to give him your number? And to get your little brother to do it is very immature. Stop waisting his time if you don't really like him. Talk to him when you see him, and get to know him that way.
2007-02-27 08:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your expecting something of him so if he asks for your number i say yes give it to him he doesnt need to be a potential boyfriend to just talk on tha phone act natural dont even sweat it
2007-02-27 08:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be thinking about school your way too young. Do you want to be bringing home babies or good grades? Go see a couselor you sound like you need help. Good Luck.
2007-02-27 08:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New service called
GrandCentral.com
you link you phone to this number, no one will ever know your personal number, it also allows voicemail, etc
Give anyone you dont trust this number and never worry again
2007-02-27 08:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea take a risk
2007-02-27 08:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋