Singles & Dating - 26 February 2007

Hi, my partner was with a women 10 yrs ago they have a child together, they split up about 7 yrs back, as she was cheating on him, with his mate, they stayed together and got through it, but not long after she was caught doing it again, so my partner ended it,and they went seperate ways, then about 6 months before i got with him he was seeing her behind her boyfriends back, he never told me, it was only about after a year of dating him, his mate told me, i was fuming and constantly argueing about it with him, he said he never loved her, but he wanted to marry her, he always said he was only with her for his daughter, excuses i think.
He says to me i need to get over his past before it ruins our relationship, and i totally agrre, but i constantly feel secound best to his x.
I dont know what to do as we are getting married in 4 months and i dont want to make a mistake incase he does still love her, i love him 100%, just not sure if he does me.

2007-02-26 22:21:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 22:17:34 · 21 answers · asked by Ellie W 3

2007-02-26 22:16:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ellie W 3

in the nicest way possible....

2007-02-26 22:14:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica Velasquez 2

plsssssss help

2007-02-26 22:13:05 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 22:12:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 22:02:54 · 19 answers · asked by drixx 1

I am going to be going on a second date with this girl I really like. The first date was awesome, both of us thought it was the best first date either of us have ever been on. We both really like each other, and we both know it. I want to give her a small boquet or a single flower. I don't want to over do it with a dozen roses or anything, as we have only been on one date. What kind of flower should I give her? I know there is different meanings for different flowers, but every website I go to says something different about each flower. I am thinking a single pink or white rose. Let me know what you think ladies!!

2007-02-26 22:02:44 · 13 answers · asked by Skinny 2

I have this love/hate work relationship with a girl I work with. We flirt regularly also and colleagues say we behave like a married couple!(she has a Boyfriend,but he won't commit).At times it seems we want each other, but other times we want to kill each other!!!(not literaly!)

Would this mean she fancies me or not?What is a love/hate relationship?

Will it ever lead to something more if the right circumstances arose? i.e. on a night out with work colleagues....

Anyone be in a similar situation

2007-02-26 21:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by roadtripman90 1

Ok, So my boyfriend is plannin on movin out here, So that we can be together. But there are so many problems preventing it. Like he cant stay with me because i live with my dad, And he wont allow it. Go figure?...anyways, Hes workin on gettin a job where hes at, to get enough money to get him here. But he dont know anyone out here, and hes got until April to be outta the place hes at. And i have a place he can stay. But he cant till the end of april. and thats not soon enough, and not to mention he cant stay with anyone unless helps with bills, and he cant get a job here without a car. and hell im still working on gettin a car so that i can get a job myself. I mean i dunno im so confused, im tryin to figure all this out. But to have a month to do it all? A month never felt so short. and its not like he can do it, hes stuck to. and im just out of ideas, I need some advice.. Someone please gimme some ideas if you can!!! Thanks.

2007-02-26 21:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by So Confused 1

black men more attractive if yes why?

2007-02-26 21:56:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

iv been going out with someone for 3 weeks he has fallen for me, and i like him but the more he likes me the more he is backing off, when he is drunk he is pouring his heart out to me but when he is sober he has stopped talking to me, he has told my friend he feels awful for acting the way he has and is nervous to contact me but his head is all over the place but does not no why, he asks if iv been with anyone else and seems very insecure which he has never felt with previous girlfirends, iv not heard off him for 2 days will i hear off him again??.the first 2 weeks he was sending me roses and cudnt keep away but as he seems to have become more keen he has becbecome more bothered about me btu has gone more distant ending up now nothing at all

2007-02-26 21:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 21:55:20 · 7 answers · asked by Bob M 1

hi everyone please i would be more than happy if you guys can give me some advice , its my mums 41st birthday on the 1st march, i dont knw what to get her, she has so much jewellery, so much clothhhhhhhhhes so much everything what shall i do what could i get her??????

2007-02-26 21:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When she walks past-she lowers her head as she passes me.SHE'S THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES THIS IN THE OFFICE!Other times she smiles and we make eye contact. GOOD SIGN???

When her friends walk past-they sometimes look at me+smile+stop talking.Then they suddenly start talking again as soon as they pass me!!!The same happens during lunch occasionly.GOOD SIGN???

I sent her a valentine card(don't know its me) and my mate said that her friends were talking about it. The next day she sat at a table(which was empty) behind me at lunch, even though she passed 5-6 empty tables to get there!!!We just kept looking at each other,smiling and making eye contact.A coincidence???GOOD SIGN???

Not spoken to her yet-work in different departments, I don't deal with her at all.How can I get talking to her??

THESE POSITIVE SIGNS???

p.s. I'm very shy and afraid of rejection!

2007-02-26 21:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend keeps asking me to kiss him what to do its irritating i told him but he did not listen

2007-02-26 21:50:12 · 19 answers · asked by I love myself!!!! 2

when a girl from a conservative society knows that her cleavage is somehow visible to the guy whom shes talking to,and still not do any safety measures to hide it,even she looks at it and then pretends she doesnt know at all....

2007-02-26 21:49:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy in my class on whom i hav a crush on. he came to me today and v sat next 2 each other and talked for a long time.
i really liked it. now i miss him. how do i get him 2 like me amd talk 2 me more?

2007-02-26 21:49:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

really want to take my ex back, he didnt cheat on me but ended it out the blue then started seeing someone else.
he's now ended it and is trying so hard to get me back, taking me out, sending me flowers to work txtng and emailing everyday.
i love him, was with him 3 yrs and we got a house together.
feel confused cos i know i shouldnt give him another try but i cant let him go and dont want things to be over. would you risk it again for love??

2007-02-26 21:48:11 · 21 answers · asked by sweetness 3

2007-02-26 21:47:58 · 8 answers · asked by MootY 1

I think, mostly, girls in North America have such high self-importance that they ignore anyone that isn't a potential moviestar/musician - leading to a glut of secret virgins in H.S. and college. This attitude is the basis of the cliques that cut people apart by worthiness, thus increasing sex starved numbers. Sex (qual/quant) is a gauge for societal success by EVERYONE. People left out of the sex game remain bitter. I think this is the source of America's hidden psychopatic rage (Islam too)
Only a fraction of the guys get ALL of the attractive girls. This gives them the self-esteem to bully the guys who are unloved and starts a cycle of pain. Beautiful girls further treat them as inhuman leading to sucidal thoughts. Moments of heated retaliation sometimes occur such as in Columbine and the Amish school. But why? Euro girls treat sex less like an exclusive club but more of a menu, so sex is more distrubuted amongst unglamourous men - amounting to less hostility overall. So why N.A.?

2007-02-26 21:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Cratzey 3

i have been friends with
him for 5 years and i like him but i dont know if he likes me he stars at me sometimes

2007-02-26 21:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

by accessing my boyfriends e.mails i have seen he has cheated on me three times by meeting random girls of the internet. i love him very much, obviously wont trust him again but does anyone have any ideas wot i should do now or been in this position?

2007-02-26 21:43:32 · 25 answers · asked by kate 1

A best friend in love 6years how do we get to be friends with benefits as we are not in hurry to get married?If u had experience of being friends with benefits please share it best answer 10points.

2007-02-26 21:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-26 21:36:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls often use X at the end of messages, texts, emails, as almost a throwaway comment though if a guy puts an X its "oh my god whats he want" and its read into. Why is this?

2007-02-26 21:36:08 · 19 answers · asked by budda m 5

We have been dating for 5 years,due to certain reasons we decided to end the relationship and remain good friends. We only meet few months once for coffee...but when leaving he always whisper to me..."you are always on my mind" and looked deep into my eyes? Do you think he still has feelings for me ? For your info, the relationship has ended more then a year. Your opinion please. Thanks.

2007-02-26 21:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy is going to ask me out when he gets back from his work holiday if he is not moving

2007-02-26 21:29:50 · 8 answers · asked by laura m 1

basically i just broke up in a bad way, i slapped him because he called a hipocrite, and i caught a text inhis phone to another girl and 00,24 and things were just not going well and just building up and up,he played about etc. basically i am burning now,i feel like calling him,i did but got no reply,any songs that help you get over it,i`ve listened to i`m no t missing you, any other ideas,also i have been flirting online,agreeing to meet up others just for the sak eof it, is this a good idea,help stop the pain

2007-02-26 21:29:02 · 7 answers · asked by FLAVIA D 2

her family insists on me marrying her.I don`t want to disturb my studies and hence I highly regret my action,and to be honest I love the girl very much.please help.

2007-02-26 21:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by ali m 1