When she walks past-she lowers her head as she passes me.SHE'S THE ONLY ONE WHO DOES THIS IN THE OFFICE!Other times she smiles and we make eye contact. GOOD SIGN???
When her friends walk past-they sometimes look at me+smile+stop talking.Then they suddenly start talking again as soon as they pass me!!!The same happens during lunch occasionly.GOOD SIGN???
I sent her a valentine card(don't know its me) and my mate said that her friends were talking about it. The next day she sat at a table(which was empty) behind me at lunch, even though she passed 5-6 empty tables to get there!!!We just kept looking at each other,smiling and making eye contact.A coincidence???GOOD SIGN???
Not spoken to her yet-work in different departments, I don't deal with her at all.How can I get talking to her??
THESE POSITIVE SIGNS???
p.s. I'm very shy and afraid of rejection!
2007-02-26 21:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good sign :))) Obviously fancy's you. Why not walk up to her [ i know you are shy ] and ask her if you can join her for lunch. One of you have to make the first step you know. It might as well be you. Make a point of greeting her that way it will lead to talking and awayyyy you go. Make the first step and stop wondering, go on , i wish you luck and who care's if she says NO, you will only find out if you try.
2007-02-26 21:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things just sound electrifying, on the other hand she might have something up with her and didn't want you to see it, all the same they sure sound really positive to me. Heres what you do. Say to her Years ago, (only to be said if your over 25) I was reading a book on Body Language and according to this book you fancy me! If your not over 25 say i was reading this book the other night on Body Language.etc etc etc. If she says no then say The book must have it wrong then. Oh by the way, the bird never got the worm by saying come here let me eat you, with his telepathic mind, he flew and caught it. Know what I mean, get a move on, whats the worst thing she can say, no, at least you already know that, so therefore no rejection. Go for it.
2007-02-27 00:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by windbag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know whats it like to shy i was like that at one stage too.
Anyway just relax and talk to her like you would anyone else.
By what your saying about her she seems pretty interested in you.
So go talk to her do you really want to be left wondering what could of been.
If she rejects you which ive been through more than once and ive had a few yes's as well, then just go for someone else.
Once you ask one girl out whether you get rejected or not your confidence in asking girls will come to you.
Trust me ive been through it and now am more confident.
Good luck :)
2007-02-26 22:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by scotty84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be prepared for rejection and maybe humiliation -- it happens to all of us; then, approach her - ask to sit at her table; make small talk about work, then tell her you've noticed her many times and would enjoy talking more, maybe over lunch on a Sunday ... just give it a try
2007-02-26 22:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, just talk to her! Some girls are shy and they'd appreciate it if the guy makes the first move. Hey, it's just talking, it's not like saying you like her immediately!
2007-02-26 22:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by AnaC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about the weather or let her know how hectic work is and how you need to finish this project or something like that and she will listen.
Next time, just introduce yourself.
2007-02-26 21:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those who r willing 2 fail greatly
will recieve greatly.
2007-02-26 22:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by cheesy_sausage@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her an internal email, flirt a little ,see how it goes.
2007-02-27 00:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋