basically i just broke up in a bad way, i slapped him because he called a hipocrite, and i caught a text inhis phone to another girl and 00,24 and things were just not going well and just building up and up,he played about etc. basically i am burning now,i feel like calling him,i did but got no reply,any songs that help you get over it,i`ve listened to i`m no t missing you, any other ideas,also i have been flirting online,agreeing to meet up others just for the sak eof it, is this a good idea,help stop the pain
2007-02-26 21:29:02 · 7 answers · asked by FLAVIA D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes - you need to feel good about yourself again and flirting is an excellent way of doing that. don't ring him, don't text him, dont give him the satisfaction of knowing that he hurt you so bad! take time for you - change your hair style and buy new clothes that he has never seen you in..... it would be like you are shunning him from your life - destinies child - independant women is a really powerfull song. go out have fun with your friends and flirt with every guy you meet. youll get over that S>O>B in a heartbeat!
2007-02-26 21:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by pinkchampagne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself of all the reasons you split up in the first place - he was texting another girl - he showed you no respect - you are worth much more than that. A great song to listen to is Survivor by Destiny's Child!
Of course it hurts now, but time really is a great healer. Try and keep yourself busy - concentrate on yourself - meet up with friends - go shopping - have a makeover.
Don't contact him - it's going to be hard but much better for you in the long run if you break all contact. Delete his number from your phone to avoid the temptation.
Hope that helps.
2007-02-27 05:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy in the Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard hunny, best song is I WILL SURVIVE....Listen to the lyrics, it will give your strength. I broke up from my st marriage years ago, alone with small children, I enjoyed that time on my own, just getting to know mysdelf, also dont go llooking for Mr Right, he will find you in good time.....All the best and finally DO NOT CONTACT YOUR EX, you deserve so much more.
2007-02-27 05:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u share the same feeling and situation with most of us, i wonder why the faithful ones always end up with the unfaithful ones.But all i can say is dont ever let a man who is not crazy in love with you affect ya emotion cos am going tru d same right noww but am not gonna let her action affect me rather am gonna keep search 4 a new friend inorder to forget d old one
2007-02-27 05:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by yourloveguide 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion only.....Dont see other people just for the sake of it...
Keep yourself occupied with other stuff.....I know the pain is tremendous but you know what? it will go away.....dont call the person you broke up with, let them call you....if it was meant to be it will happen.....I know this is easy to say and you're hurting bad but trust me i've been there and im ok now ....
2007-02-27 05:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by marc r p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"irreplaceable"-beyonce(overplayed?)
"since you been gone"-kelly clarkson
"he wasn't"-avril lavigne
other songs by avril lavigne(recommended- keep holding on, my happy ending, don't tell me)
hope you get better
2007-02-27 05:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by wordsofapoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sleep with his best friend....
2007-02-27 05:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋