Singles & Dating - 19 February 2007

What would you find as the most flattering approach?

2007-02-19 07:25:40 · 7 answers · asked by Female O ♥ 4

My ex-boyfriend and I were childhood bestfriends. We fell in love and dated for sometime. Then, he had to go to Iraq and I was supportive and wrote every week but he never wrote me. However, he did call home and he would tell his mom to tell me that he loved me. Once he got back, he took 2 weeks to call me. When he did call it was to tell me that he didn't love me anymore. I accepted this and moved on and dated another guy. Things with this other guy ended. 10 months passed and I never spoke with h my ex again until I found out he is active again. I wrote him a letter. A month passed and he added me to his friends list. Last weeked we talked. He said he wished he would have done things differently and that he values things more now. Then he told me how he is scared that he will never have children and find a wife for that matter. It hurt me to hear this cuz we were going to get married. I love him but I told him that I can't be his friend. Why did he look for me online and call?

2007-02-19 07:25:36 · 3 answers · asked by EV 2

this guy likes me and i feel the same. but OUR friend likes him and he acts like he likes her too becuase she tells me. she says al his friends know that he likes her. but when i ask him straight up he denies having feelings for her. he just says she is too bossy and pushy. who do i believe what do it do!

2007-02-19 07:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

27 years old, I started seeing this guy last year. He was still living with his ex-girlfriend but I thought i'd give it a shot. Things ended because he wanted to stop or slow things down as his ex was making it hard for him to go home. She was jealous he was seeing me. The catcher is that they were still friends and would be in contact. We broke things off (mutually). However, a few months down the road he wanted to get back together with me because he realized their relationship was over (aside from friends). I gave in and gave him the benefit of the doubt and we started going out. I was very hesitant with many things, especially him still being in touch with his ex, and having trouble trusting him. We are now longer together because he lied to me one too many times and I didn't want to be treated that way. A part of me thinks he may want to try and get back with me down the road when his ex realizes she finally has him and no longer wants him. Should I give him another chance?

2007-02-19 07:24:45 · 5 answers · asked by curiousinME 1

striiipppppeeerrrrrrrrr! arent they hott? yes yes they are, think it would be a bad idea to date one?! i prob wouldnt be jealous if she pays most my bills

2007-02-19 07:24:38 · 4 answers · asked by b4i_fku-r-u-18 2

ok, so I'm kind of in love with my best friend. And where both female. And she's a muslim and her parents are pretty strict. And she's always given everyone a show of being a huge homophobic. We have been kind of on and off for a few years, and by that I mean that sometimes we've been all cuddly and held each other and told each other that we loved one another (but always as 'friends' even though I don't think it's normal for friends to act that way hm..,) and other times we've been very distant. A few days ago it was my 20 birthday, me and my friends got really drunk. We ended up playing truth or dare and me and my friend kissed, tongues and all. twice. Pathetic as I know it must sound it was my first kiss, and she knew it. She often joke about us being in love and stuff, so much so that I think the 'joke-factor' is just a facade and that she mean what she says. But three seconds later she can be all: "I want a boyfriend" or "That guys gorgeous" and it makes me so confused. Help me?

2007-02-19 07:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by loveless_sselevol 3

2007-02-19 07:22:43 · 3 answers · asked by wassup 4

:))))

2007-02-19 07:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by terracotta 2

I still love my wife that died, my high school sweetheart (though I don't feel that very much now), and the last woman I lived with. Is this common? I want to know if YOU feel that way about 2 or more people.

2007-02-19 07:22:02 · 4 answers · asked by Benji 5

does it mean he likes you?
there's this guy i know who's really shy and he knows i like him and my friends tell me he stares at me when im not looking. i cant tell if he likes me or not because i feel that he sometimes avoids me.

2007-02-19 07:21:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am fourteen and a half and have never had a boyfriend, i am REALY shy around guys that i like and i kinda just freeze up. at the moment i like this guy and he is also realy shy. people say he likes.... but i just cant talk to him! he is always looking at me and he smiles and quickly and looks away if i catch him. but im scared that he will think im a loser coz i neva been out with anyone before! and im too shy to talk to him.. what should i do?

2007-02-19 07:21:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I personally like men who wear polo black.
mmmm....

2007-02-19 07:21:14 · 23 answers · asked by Who Pinched My Bottom? 1

i am kinda shy and so is he i want to know if he likes me without asking him upfront. because i am in middle school and i dont want to be embaressed if he doesnt like me. and we have known each other since 2nd grade and he is soooooooooooo sweet!!!

2007-02-19 07:20:02 · 1 answers · asked by ella-roo 1

There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, but it seems he still wants to look, or be near my work area. One day, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to the fridge to get my lunch and walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk fastly.

2007-02-19 07:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 07:18:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend wants a 3some and i have no issue with complying but the problem is we cant find anotha grl. i cant ask ne of my friends (there all very conservative) n my guy dosent know anyone. is there a safe way of finding a third party?

2007-02-19 07:17:11 · 26 answers · asked by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2

There is this guy he says he loves me and everything n wnts to sleep wit me. Should I let him?? I mean he loves me and he said he would give his life 4 me. Its been in dat position he almost got illed jst for me. Should I let him??? Should we become a lil more den bf n gf?

2007-02-19 07:16:45 · 4 answers · asked by Karina 1

She knows what my weakness is and knows I love my gf. Why does she have to do what she is doing to me? I don't know how long I can hold out. She is the ultimate temptress and each time i see her it's getting harder and harder to resist her. She is my gf's friend so there is no way of avoiding her.

2007-02-19 07:16:11 · 10 answers · asked by Submit to her Feet 2

Ok, im way too young for this yet, but i know that girls are ok with guys crotches, and they dont find them that wrank! But when guys finger or lick a gal, do they not find the whole appearance grosse, and does it not completely turn them off?

2007-02-19 07:15:51 · 17 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1

i talk to this girl alot.i like her but only as a friend.
but the guy i like is jealous of me talking to her.
i do like him alot as i said.but i wonder...why is he mad at me for talking to this girl?hes the bisexual one not me.if anything maybe i should get abit nervous if he talks to a girl all the time.but i am not like that anyway...
so...*helpless*why is he so bothered about me(a gay guy)talking to a girl?who happens to be straight and in no way could turn me...

2007-02-19 07:15:26 · 7 answers · asked by south_parker98 2

Minimum and maximum.

2007-02-19 07:14:52 · 19 answers · asked by WestCoastin4Life 7

My boyfriend and I hardly ever had sex when we started going out because we were taking it slow then it gradually became more and more often and now I feel like we do it so much it interferes with our social lives and basically our entire relationship because we have been fighting lately more often about stupid little things that don't even matter. I told him I thought either not having sex for a while might make it better and he said okay. (he's not the type of person to get mad at me if we don't have sex) Anyways, I just think it might make our relationship better because we can focus more on eachother and be perhaps become more sensual. Am I wrong? Have you tried this? Did it work? Let me know. I don't want to do something to completely ruin our sex life but I would like to have the kindness and sensuality back. Will this make it worse or better, do you think?

2007-02-19 07:12:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

anywhere from Paris to somewhere in your imagination...dark or light, fluffy or not so fluffy, money, distance, time and so on no object...wherever you want to be...;0)

2007-02-19 07:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 07:12:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

she likes comedy, im not so sure about horror, but she also likes action.
i DO NOT want to see a romantic comedy. anything but that is okay.

2007-02-19 07:11:34 · 11 answers · asked by shade9901 1

enter below

2007-02-19 07:10:57 · 7 answers · asked by wassup 4

Should I date a guy who isnt my type at all, and my family would joke about, b/c he is into rap and stuff, and I'm not I like rock, and hate all that stuff, but we kinda have a connection?? Will we get into alot of differences about things..like I won't do the "grinding" which seems acceptable, and stuff, ...and I hate rap music, and the look...

2007-02-19 07:10:28 · 15 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2

i like her and she likes me(she said)... we've gone out fora while. she asked me if she should go see this friend of her she knew from online. i told her... it depends on her since im not her bf right(i didnt say im not her bf when i was talking to her though) and i just hope she would be careful though. i hear hre mention this guy to me sometimes... should i ask her what role does this guy really play in her life? or should i not since im not even her bf? cuz i am trying to take this relationship further with her and i talked to her about this before and i think she wants to do the same... but there are problems for both of us so we are still at this friend stage. do you think i should ask her? or should i not?

2007-02-19 07:09:39 · 3 answers · asked by tmackun135 1

2007-02-19 07:09:22 · 20 answers · asked by Sardine, Private Inbreastigator 1

Me and my boyfriend have been "dating" for 4 months and have been boyfriend/girlfriend for a month. we see each other every day at school and about every other day after school. weve taken it slow for 4 months and finally decided to make it official. the only difference is he comes over more and we kiss. thats IT...do you think my dad is worried that im going to do something ill regret? ive commited my LIFE to being a virgin and not letting a guy touch me innappropriately, and me and my boyfriend have SET those boundaries and we both respect them. i think he is worried that i wont hang out with my friends as much. i am going to make sure that i have a girls night out every week now that he pointed it out to me. but how do i tell him that i can have time for my boyfriend AND my friends? i really like this guy and i feel he is an awesome person for me. i told him what my dad said and he FREAKED....

what do i do?!

2007-02-19 07:07:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous