There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, but it seems he still wants to look, or be near my work area. One day, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to the fridge to get my lunch and walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk fastly.
2007-02-19 07:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me, it sounds like he's trying to be a good fiancee. He sounds like he's trying to avoid you (not talking to you, saying he doesn't want to be friends, packing books fast, walking by desk quickly). It might be because he is attracted to you but he still loves his fiancee. If I were you, I would just leave him alone and let him go his own way. Obviously, he can't handle being friends with you right now.
2007-02-19 07:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its possible that he is just nervous around you and says the things he says just to prevent himself from embarrassing himself. Its also possible dat he lyks u, but since he has a fiancee, he wants to be away from u, but still be close. Ask him whats soo weird about u, nd tell him that the way he's acting may give the impression that he needs some serious help.
2007-02-19 15:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by ! :] ♥ ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your both weird. Why are you thinking about getting with someone who is engaged, and besides that he is a freak for thinking about getting with you when he has a fiance. You both need help and you'll get fired if you keep messing around at work. Work is for work not a social event.
2007-02-19 15:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you tried to sleep with a guy who you knew was engaged at the time you did it. thats pretty wierd and i must say it's just dumb. but women are a self destructive bunch, and i'm willing to bet anything he wanted to fuc.k ya, which scared him because he is engaged but has a dick and balls and can't control all his urges. so in order to protect himself from his hormones is distancing himself from someone who would tempt him to make a stupid decision and sacrifice an entire marraige for a one night stand with a skanky broad who probably only wanted the one night because he was about to become unavailable.
2007-02-19 15:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go, if he doesn't want to be friends then let him go. Maybe his fiancee told him to stop talking to you.?
2007-02-19 15:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by CHICK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he needs therapy. y should it matter 2 him ne way, if he has a fiancee.
2007-02-19 15:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by army brat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋