Singles & Dating - 14 February 2007

well i went out with this guy for about 3 years and i loved him deeply (i still do) and then his best friend told me that hes been cheating on me so when i called him and asked him he explained it all to me and that he is cheating on me. He said that it was all a mistake and that it was never supposed ti happen. This happened a few months ago and he still calls me everyday and says hes sorry and that he loves me and needs me. I love him too but i dont know if i should give him another chance or not. What do you think i should do?

2007-02-14 12:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by andrea b 2

How to get over a crush on my bestguyfriend. he has a gf and i want to get over him. please help?
i've had a crush on him for about 6 months. he has a girlfriend. i used to be jealous. but i got over it. i trie and find another person to crush on , but i don't like anyone else at my school. how do i get over my best guy friend. i keep thinking about him. We've been knowing each for 3 years. I assume if he didn't try to go with me by now. he does not like me, so i have to move on. please tell me how.

2007-02-14 12:34:38 · 3 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1

I just got a new boyfriend last week and i love him a lot. everything is going great and nothing to complain about. however, it doesnt really feel any different from when we were just friends. we are both kind of busy so we havent had too much socializing time.... and we are both shy and newer to dating...what can i do? is this normal to not feel much of a difference?

2007-02-14 12:34:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So.. there's this guy...and he told me that he likes me.. but now he's telling me about this really hot older girl that wants him. I realllly want him to like me.. i just need to know if you think its worth it or not. if you think that i should keep trying then, do you have ANY ideas to what i can do to get him to like me more? I'd really appreciate your answers, Thanks.

2007-02-14 12:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So theres this guy I met this weekend and if he was there he must be intrested in the same things I am but like do guys tell you weird facts for a reason and he talked to me like once or twice but should I still see if hes gonna be at this place cause I think Im going to find him not just for me Im confusing I know but theres a question in there somewhere.

2007-02-14 12:33:57 · 1 answers · asked by countrygirl101 2

ewww i hate having that time of month.
my self-esteem always gets low during the 5-7 days i have em.

is anyone else this way? =(

2007-02-14 12:33:40 · 4 answers · asked by BRITANI 1

For those that would say they are in love or just have a really good relationship with somebody I want to ask you something and that is How did you guys get into a relationship? Where did you guys first meet? What did you talk about at first? Where was your first date at? As you can tell I have never dated before but I really like this guy but I don't know what to do about it. I am 14 and super shy when it come to these things. Tommarrow morning when I see him before school starts and everything do you think there is something that I should do to him or say to him. He will be with his friends and that's why I'm scared and i won't really get a chance to talk to him any other time. I know that I have to be the one to so something about because he isn't going to like go out of his way to talk to me or anything because like he doesn't even know me. So I'm scared to talk to him and I don't want my friends to do it for me. I want to do it on my own. Any suggestions? What do guys like?

2007-02-14 12:33:36 · 1 answers · asked by Loaha 2

I am not good looking, I don't have much money. I go to an Ivy league school. I am not funny. I am Asian. I am not very athletic but in okay shape. Never had girlfriend, not so good at socializing, I have a little bit of accent when I talk because I am originally from S. Korea. I am gonna die alone aren't I? Just asking for reassurance, (or I believe this is called negative feedback seeking in the field ofpsychology) Oh and I think I will probably lead a long life since I haven't been really sick so far and don't do anything that is dangerous. I will lead very very very boring, lonely, long life. How exciting.

2007-02-14 12:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by 1jizzle 2

ok, so when one of my friends asked my crush if he liked me, he said, "uhh, no, why" and he was blushing and looking at the ground! Does this mean he was lying, or just tellin the truth? and my crush's best friend keeps sayin i like him in front of my crush, is this so my crush wants to find out? and one last ques. when he asked me if he liked me (his friend) i said no, i didnt want to get embarrassed!!!! HELP!!!!!!! !!!!!!!! again

2007-02-14 12:32:17 · 15 answers · asked by lucyeunice 1

I dont seem to fit in no matter how hard I try. Guys only like me because I'm pretty and girls are always jelous. I always talk in class but no one calls me their friend. :(

2007-02-14 12:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 12:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is Valentine. My day started out great until some guy i disliked to the extreme made a prank sending me a love card as a secret admirer.I thought it was meant to be special from some1 special from my crush. But it was not. That guy Kevin is really an asshole. In my heart, im fighting revenge, but i cant get over it. Help me get it through and tell the guy off to show he upset me. Today is a total disappointment. My crush failed me. Please tell me you care even if you dont know me. Im broken.

2007-02-14 12:30:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do about a boyfriend who is too elaborate, dramatic, and constantly self-absorbed? (Like today, on Valentine's Day...he went WAY too much over-the-top in a really embarrasing manner in front of my friends.) They are afraid of him now, becaus of all these flowers he gave me... they said, "Did you rob the flower store?" to him. Like, a few roses would have been good enough, but than the stuffed animal comes out...and he knows I don't really like stuffed animals as gifts! They know I am trying to deal with him. He does it to compete with the rich people he knows, who really don't give a s^^t about him. I am more "country" and down-to-earth, and he really upsets a lot of people with his diva-like attitude. I've tried to ignore it, call attention to it, ask him why, and he says he won't be like "that" again, but he finds other ways to have no regard for others. All because he wants people to think he's really important, like always busy and on the go.

2007-02-14 12:30:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

now that i got your attention, do you guys care if a woman looks at you during $ex? like makes eye contact or looks at your face

2007-02-14 12:30:03 · 6 answers · asked by PAISA 2

she said she wanted to get to know me we were together and broke up twice once i broke up with her then she broke up with me.
noone cheated nothing bad happened.
i got her a valentimes day present and found out the same day i got it she had a b/f one of her friends said if things dint work out with her curent b/f she would go out with me agin.
im still giveing her the necklace and i love her with all my heart and ive passed up 2 girls i know like me b/c she still means alot to me

2007-02-14 12:29:57 · 23 answers · asked by 1confusedGuy 1

Some of you may have read my posts about a certain girl. We are in are early teens. When I first got to know her she was a really sweet and sincere person. I found myself not able to stop thinking about her. Soon I mustered up the courage to ask her to a dance at are school dance. By this time some middle schoolers had pieced it together. i asked the opinion of a few of her friends and they said i should. When I asked her she replied "Finally i have been waiting for you to ask me all night" or something like that. Anyway we have been on and off and she know how i feel. We have had some talks and she said amist all these rumors that constantly go around betwwen us i could always trust her. I care about her and really want to be her boyfriend but I don't know. She sees me as a friend and says she cant se me as more, what does that mean. I sent her a letter on her bday telling her some stuff and telling her she is a great person. Please help me with this. Thank you all for your help.

2007-02-14 12:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by darthranon 1

hey i like this guy who just happened to be my ex boyfriend, but also my ex boyfriend, and he was a real "man-whore" but i know he likes me again, and in two days we'll have a dance and i'm waiting for him to ask me out then, but i keep on asking myself, what if he doesn't? what should i do? i can't move on cuz i know he's the only guy in my entire school i can see myself with although everyones else including my best friends can't see me with anyone! i'm really confused! he's just so stubborn! he told me about a month ago that he was gonna write me a note, so i keep asking him when he's gonna write it, and he keeps saying that i'll find out...i just wanna slap him! how do i let him know that i still like him when i told everyone that i don't anymore? if you even have the patience to read this far, please answer my questions and no stupid ones please!

2007-02-14 12:28:57 · 1 answers · asked by hailz 2

in the shower...this isn't what couples normally do everyday, is it? By the way we are both 16 and virgins......

2007-02-14 12:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by minoru 2

What do you make of this? A man who was very good to you the first six months then you find out what kind of person he really is in that he is jealous and possesive, doesnt want anyone to look at you, always talks about $ and tells you he can tell what kind of work a woman does by the way she dresses, you find he has a history of not breaking up with women but treating them so badly (critical, accusatory, belittling them) that they will break up with him, blames the women as to why the relationship failed, makes statements like "I refuse to be alone" "I will just go out and find someone to use temporarily to be happy" "Heavy set women are easy to get" "I dont expect anyone to trust me" "If I go to the bar, I never leave emptyhanded" "I used to be a sick minded person, I would leave one's house and go to anothers but I decided to change" and always bragging , he cheated and marries 2 mo. later a girl who is heavy with $ she has same ring he gave 3 others. He met most women in bars.

2007-02-14 12:28:48 · 16 answers · asked by jeannie64 2

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and we just recently got engaged. About a year ago she kissed another guy, she admitted that it was a mistake and I eventually forgave her and we stayed together. I really love her, but I can't manage to forget the past. I have tried talking to her about it, but it upsets her. I just want to put the past behind me and let us move on with our lives. Can someone please help me?

2007-02-14 12:28:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this gurl in my school but I dunno if she likes me or not. Sometimes outside on the field/playground she'll come and hug me, today at the school dance she also did the same, she looks at me as I walk past, but I'm not sure. Does she like me? If u think she does, please tell me wut to do.... thanks!

2007-02-14 12:28:12 · 6 answers · asked by cooldude 2

so do guys talk about crushes and girls and stuff as much as girls are said to do? like besidese just saying stuf like yeah, she has a hot @ss or something like that

2007-02-14 12:27:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 48 and my gf is 44. I am divorced and so is she. We have been together for 4 months. We have our differences, and we live on opposite sides of town so we see each other on the w/e. Neither one of us can move in with the other right now. We have another year before we can even think of living together. Her daughter graduates next June from HS. I am working on being patient, but this w/e thing is tough since we are together only Sat.nite/Sunday afternoon. We aren't clicking sexually at this point, but I feel that it takes time to learn the other's likes or kinks. I would like to see this through for at least a year. She is quiet, reserved and is not really open with communication, but I give her respect, cause she's trying to be more open and sharing.
Any ideas or suggestions? I have deep feelings for her and she is a caring woman who loves me for who I am, not what I can give her.

2007-02-14 12:26:57 · 10 answers · asked by David M 1

ok so theres this guy and he got me a card and gave it to me in frount of mi whole class on valentines day and i like him and everything but tommorow is goin 2 b really awkward because i get embarassed and i was really really embarassed when he gav me the card and i dont know what to say to him and everything
help!!
ps-b4 he gav me the card and said that he liked me and asked me to be him valentine he was mi friend and i talked to him alot so now it will be really awkward and i need HELP!!!

ps i already posted it but i need more HELP!!

2007-02-14 12:26:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well its not like I exactly WANT to kiss him now, but there will come a moment when I am ready and I wont be able to. I dont know. The only time I am with him alone is in the hallway at shcool every once in a while. Im not about to kiss him there.

2007-02-14 12:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by i miss himm.alott? 2

So i was dating this girl i fell in love with the monent i saw her and then after 7 months everything fell apart. Her mom doesnt like me at all and the daughter has no back bone to stand up to her mom about what she wants in life. We ended up beaking up because it became really stressful for us to be together. We still talk every day, email, text back and forth, see each other. So why cant we be together? This girl is my heart and soul and i dont know what do to. I know that she was in a tug a war battle with her mom and myself and i know we broke up to ease some of the stress but i feel so lost without her in my life. I have never felt like this for anyone. She blew me away with her great big smile. We get along great. We have wonderful conversations, laugh all the time, have great sex, hold each other all night long, and do many things together from walks to travel. She comes to me for everything. What should i do just more on or wait until she is ready to be with me again

2007-02-14 12:26:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

but, my friend also likes him. i am pretty sure he is not interested in her. i got really mad because she sent him a valentine and it said "thx for talking to me on the phone. Be mine!!! j/k". she is annoying the heck out of me. what should i do. and also she got an anoymous valentine, and other people said it was from that boy. but i don't know. how do i get him to notice me and be more interested in me. i also want him to ask me out... how can i get him to do that??? please help!!!

2007-02-14 12:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie Pie 1

How do you tell a girl that likes you a lot that you just want to be friends and not boyfriend and girlfriend.

2007-02-14 12:22:44 · 13 answers · asked by bobo 2

i went to my v-day dance at school and the guy that i like was there he is in a grade higher then me and i still dont know his name but when i was dancing he kept looking at me he was like moving his head around to find me and when it was time to slow dance he kept smiling at me and everytime i got close his friends would like push him like they were telling him to ask me to dance(but we didnt even talk)i see him all the time cause we have the same lunch period does what happened at my dance mean he likes me or what

2007-02-14 12:22:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy in my grade.. we were okay friends, then i asked him to tournabout (a dance where the girls ask guys) and every since than we haven't really talked because everyone is always like awww awwwww awwwww... i don't think he like likesss me like a bf gf way but what are some ways you can tell? I am sure he assumes I like him because everyones always talking about it but should i tell him i ilke him even if i dont think he feels the same way?

what are some ways i can make everyone else stop teasing us about it?

2007-02-14 12:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by JULIE 1