i like this boy, and this boy likes me...BUT.....?

Question

but, my friend also likes him. i am pretty sure he is not interested in her. i got really mad because she sent him a valentine and it said "thx for talking to me on the phone. Be mine!!! j/k". she is annoying the heck out of me. what should i do. and also she got an anoymous valentine, and other people said it was from that boy. but i don't know. how do i get him to notice me and be more interested in me. i also want him to ask me out... how can i get him to do that??? please help!!!

Answer 1

Ok first of all your friend is obviously not very nice. I mean if she was your real friend she wouldnt do the things she did. And the anonymous letter could or could not of been from him but that doesnt really matter, it was just valentines day. If you want to get him to ask you out or if you want to ask him out theres a few things to do. Heres a list, play hard to get, flirt with him (infront of your friend too), get close with him (friendship), let him know he can trust you, look really cute and stuff to school, only tell him you like him or ask him out once you know he likes you ( a little or alot) or once you think he might like you. Well if you need any more help write me back. Good luck

Answer 2

Okay, you need to ask him out before she gets to him first. That sort of situation is a desperate call, and you need to choose if you want to stay friends with this girl or if you want the boy more. Or, he can choose for himself. Make him be the one to choose which girl he wants, ask a bunch of friends to go talk to him and make him make a decision. Hope that helps, and best of luck!

Answer 3

if he gets hit on by both of you, he's just gonna get a big head and get extra flattered. just keep bugging him to go out and do something, spend more time with him and grab onto his arm. simple gestures like those can really get a guy into you, well given that he's somewhat interested already.

Answer 4

if you see that he likes her more, back off, it would be pointless to fight over a guy, and especially if its between you and a friend, which could lead to you guys fighting and whatnot. Try talking with your firend if its really bothering you. If she's a true friend, both of you will back off or something...

Answer 5

just spend more time with him and i would tell him that you like him and first of all just be your self and everything will fall into place you can also call him alot and be friends with him also you have to make the first move because he is probably shy to make the first move you can do it girl

Answer 6

group dates are good (preferably without your friend lol). but you cant ditch your friend, even if she is being annoying. just talk to the guy more. if he likes you, i wouldnt be worried about him askin you out.

Answer 7

i have the same problem. i just talk to him everyday and when you talk to him, dont mention your friend. and when you talk to him, look him straight in the eye. and think like a guy. just be like, "hey did you see that game last night??? it was awesome" guys like that

Answer 8

all u have to do is tlk to him more and he'll notice u obviously but plze dnt b stupid and fite ova no boi wit ur friend.bcuz there not worth it

Answer 9

WHY DON'T YOU AND YOUR FRIEND CONFRONT HIM? YOU EACH TELL HIM THAT YOU LIKE HIM AND SEE IF HE LIKE ONE OF YOU? BUT NOT AT THE SAME TIME AND DAY....... LOSER GOES HOME CRYING AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE..... OH YEAH DON'T LET LOVE COME IN BETWEEN FRIENDS!!

Answer 10

Look nice, and joke around with him.