ok so theres this guy and he got me a card and gave it to me in frount of mi whole class on valentines day and i like him and everything but tommorow is goin 2 b really awkward because i get embarassed and i was really really embarassed when he gav me the card and i dont know what to say to him and everything
help!!
ps-b4 he gav me the card and said that he liked me and asked me to be him valentine he was mi friend and i talked to him alot so now it will be really awkward and i need HELP!!!
ps i already posted it but i need more HELP!!
2007-02-14 12:26:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it
2007-02-14 12:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're panicking over a Valentine's day card. I could say buck up, you'll get over it, but it indicates to me that you are really very shy and now you feel terribly exposed. You can tell him this. He probably won't know what to make of it, but at least he'll know where you stand and why.
Don't worry about the class snickering behind your back because you got a card in front of everyone. The attention of the masses is easily diverted and in two days they'll be off on another tangent, if the whole episode even means anything to anyone other than the two of you. If you dwell on what people are going to think too much, you could descend into paranoia, and that is a hell of a place to be. Try your best to be calm and reasonable. This is one of the first romantic challenges in your life. There will be others, and each one gives you a foundation of knowledge to build upon.
2007-02-14 20:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's clear that you're young so you find something like that embarssing. As you get older, you'll wish you had a guy do at least that every Valentine day. If you like him back then you should tell him that you like him too and the card was very nice. If you don't like him, tell him it was very nice and very thoughtful and it made your day but you would rather be friends. Tell him it's nothing personal, but it the long run friendship would be best. When you get older, you'll understand. It's nice and thoughtful so don't be embarassed.
2007-02-14 20:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you like this guy, and he stepped up and asked you to be his Valentine, and then he got you a card that he gave to you in front of the class. Again, you like this guy. What's the problem? Are you embarrased by him? Do you not want to date him? If so, then tell him kindly. If not, then get over it. Do you know how many girls were jealous of you today?
2007-02-14 20:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by carmella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my advice. You need to ask him out if you really like him. Don't make him make the first move, and why are you embarassed? There's no need to if he ALREADY likes you. Do you like him back? Make sure that he really likes you before you do anything, and hope everything turns out!
2007-02-14 20:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be his g/f just tell him that you like him only as a friend. He will be upset but get over it. Just be honest. If you do like him as a b/f then just go with the flow and follow his lead, could be fun.
2007-02-14 20:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by LDR02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you give him a try .you said he was your friend .....wasn't he the one you could always talk to, the one you could tell anyone. so i think you should give him a try . and if it doesn't work out you should tell him that you don't like him..
or you could just say no because letting him think that you like him is kinda mean
or you could just say no because it will be easier to say no now than later
i hope you do good with it tomorrow
2007-02-14 20:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by hello 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't overthink it and let things fold out, if he approaches you tomorrow then so be it and just talk to him, just wait for him to make the next move, but remember it took big guts to give that card to you so you can't just make him do everything, try calling him tonight if ya'll kinda talk on the phone a lot.
2007-02-14 20:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with friends so you not that shy and write letter to the guy and tell hime tht we should have a date in private and if you go in the class jus give him a cheek kiss and if anyone bothers u **** them up!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 20:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure what the problem is.
Just say "thank you for the card, it was really sweet". Then date him if you want, or stay friends if you don't want to.
2007-02-14 20:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what other people think they dont need to be all up in ur grill they need to mind there own buisness and if u really like go 4 it. this could be ur only chance to be with him
2007-02-14 20:30:25 · answer #11 · answered by meg22lomas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋