So i was dating this girl i fell in love with the monent i saw her and then after 7 months everything fell apart. Her mom doesnt like me at all and the daughter has no back bone to stand up to her mom about what she wants in life. We ended up beaking up because it became really stressful for us to be together. We still talk every day, email, text back and forth, see each other. So why cant we be together? This girl is my heart and soul and i dont know what do to. I know that she was in a tug a war battle with her mom and myself and i know we broke up to ease some of the stress but i feel so lost without her in my life. I have never felt like this for anyone. She blew me away with her great big smile. We get along great. We have wonderful conversations, laugh all the time, have great sex, hold each other all night long, and do many things together from walks to travel. She comes to me for everything. What should i do just more on or wait until she is ready to be with me again
2007-02-14 12:26:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tried to talk to her mom she just doesnt like me. Im 26 years old and she is 25 but her mom is running her life. Her mom doesnt support anything her daughters do. All she does is down talk them all the time. Another thing her mom is kicking her out of the house come june 1st. What kind of mom does these things. My relationship with my gf is great well was then we broke up but i didnt see her but two days a week because of our different work scheduals. She works days and i work afternoons. So i wasnt stealing her from anyone. I never told her that she had to choose between her mom or myself. All i know is that i love this girl and that i wanna be with her. Its like nothing has changed at all just the title. I dont know im so lost with this whole thing i dont know what to do.
2007-02-14 12:50:40 · update #1
I have tried to talk to her mom she just doesnt like me. Im 26 years old and my ex is 25 but her mom is running her life. Her mom doesnt support anything her daughters do. All she does is down talk them all the time. Another thing her mom is kicking her out of the house come june 1st. What kind of mom does these things. My relationship with my gf is great well was then we broke up but i didnt see her but two days a week because of our different work scheduals. She works days and i work afternoons. So i wasnt stealing her from anyone. I never told her that she had to choose between her mom or myself. All i know is that i love this girl and that i wanna be with her. Its like nothing has changed at all just the title. I dont know im so lost with this whole thing i dont know what to do.
2007-02-14 12:51:36 · update #2
tell her your feelings and how you feel about everything (well maybe everything but the sex part) if she loves you like i think she does she will come back to you
Hope everything works out for you
2007-02-14 12:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by clumZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't come between a girl and her mom. If you think she'll want to be with you some day, just be satisfied with your present relationship. You don't want to be the person who causes tension in a family. If you have enough patience, be her friend and then let her mother/family see how great a guy you are. Eventually if it was meant to be, you'll be together. You never know, you might just meet someone else. That's hard to believe, but it happens to plenty of people.
2007-02-14 12:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you, then she would be with you.If she's young then that could explain her mother's influence on her.My suggestion to you is you should of won her mother over, that's what most guys do, if they really want to be with the girl.It could be the mother felt that she was spending to much time with you.You sound like you treat her good, so why doesn't the mother like you? Your asking her to choose between you and her mother which is something you don't do.You say she has no backbone, if you ask me neither do you.Because if you did, you would have tried to plead your case to her mother about how you feel about her daughter. I think the part you left out was why the mother doesn't like you.Well good luck getting her back, you sound good together, so get it together
2007-02-14 12:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves you, but it's her mom we're talking about. The other love of her life. She's confused and doesn't know who to choose. Tell her everything you've told us and tell her more. Tell her how you feel and leave nothing out. Look in her eyes when you do this so she knows you are telling he the truth. Give her time after that to think things trough. Don't give up yet. After all, she is your love. Meanwhile, you can charm her so she can make up her mind quickly. Good luck.
2007-02-14 12:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really is the one. I would wait until she's ready to be with you again. Also, I would make an appointment with her mom, and try to talk with her calmly about why she disapproves of you. Maybe you could work some things out.
2007-02-14 12:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what is that you need to over come with"Mom"....
develope a plan and steel her/ their hearts.....you need to win both of them over.
You never said why "Mom" does't like you.....change overcome adapt..........
2007-02-14 17:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Smith & Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww how adorable. i think u should wait a little while longer
2007-02-14 12:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should run away with her
2007-02-14 12:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. she's playing you.
2007-02-14 14:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by beasleybadboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋