Singles & Dating - 2 February 2007

Ive known a guy in work for just under 18 months when i first started we got on like a house on fire but once i felt i had feelings for him as im shy myself i didnt know how to express myself with him. I really feel like he likes me and thats why hes shy/nervous round me and not other gals yet when i go on work dos i have to initate convo with him as he tends to just stand there yet we have good convos in work like he shares family stories,problems we have the same interests. As ive backed off from him when i now talk to him when i finish what ive to say hell say something or stand there to see if i still want to talk to him or to keep me there. I am so confused as i thought on work dos it would give him chance to make move but he doesnt. Should i make more effort with him. I sensed that electric feeling from him so i hope i didnt get it 100 per cent wrong

2007-02-02 06:47:54 · 16 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1

how can i get a girl if i`m not so good-looking?? any ideas are appreciated...

2007-02-02 06:47:24 · 2 answers · asked by Pax2U 2

ok, there is this guy who lived in the studenthouse next to mine and one evening i went to his room because i was bored and didn't like being alone in my room. When i went there the first evening we talked a lot and when it was 2am i told him i wanted to go to my room to sleep. when i wanted to leave the room he stood in front of me, but realy close, and said i should stay a little longer.. but i didn't. he also asked me my email adress and made me a cd with songs. The next day he asked me what i was going to do the weekend. I just said that i had a lot of work for an exam.
I find it a bit confusing, does he just want to be friends or more than that?? Also he’s 26 and i’m just 19 years old.

2007-02-02 06:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by iam_Amie 2

I have to sensor this question, so read carefully.
At night my boyfriend goes into the washroom for long periods of time before we go to bed. One time I used the washroom after him and noticed what seemed to be a little evidence that he was "self abusing" in there.

I'm a little naive when it comes to these things... why would he be doing that? Do I just not cut it for him, or what? We aren't having sex, but we definitely do things which would normally get him "there"... or should for that matter, but sometimes he can't..

any insight? serious answers please

2007-02-02 06:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5

im not sure f this is true or not ?? so guys tell us ... is it true that u feel happy or enjoyment when a girl blushs cuz of somethingu said ????/?...

thanx for the answers..

2007-02-02 06:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by Non_SEnse 3

why when you do a boy so right he turns it into a break up? because i just broke up with my man for 2years, and now he is jealous because im about to go and chill with other people and make new friends . i just dont understand; i cant do anything i dont want because i still love him but gosh, why?

2007-02-02 06:42:56 · 7 answers · asked by dikdabutty56 1

he visits me everyday he takes me to school and picks me up from school the thing is we dont have much privacy and for me to have sex with him we cut school and go to his house our sex life is great at least to me it is but im bored cuz we cnt go out cuz family dnt trust me so i stay home all day and see him at 6 till 8 or 9 so that is why im bored and want to go back how it use to wen we went around and rode the motorcycle all arround pr and go get ice cream and etc...just everything we use to do that we hardly do now

2007-02-02 06:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by TUTY♥ 1

we're NOT related...he is my 1st cuzin's 2nd cuzin. but they aren't even related cuz he has a step mom. that sounds pretty confusing. but i just want to know if it's wrong. cuz i know for sure we're not related.

2007-02-02 06:42:37 · 15 answers · asked by Spongebob ") 3

2007-02-02 06:42:22 · 12 answers · asked by John S 1

all the break-ups were because of me and each one took over months

2007-02-02 06:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you tell a guy that is future wife is cheating on him?
this girl that i know from a group of friends starting cheating on him when they first met years ago. then, she stayed clean w/o cheating for the longest time. all of the sudden she started having this fling with this guy and it has gone on now for 8 months. she claims that the ring on her finger means nothing, and she loves the guy she has on the side. would anyone of you tell her future husband that she has... and still is cheating on him? or would you just let things slide and fall where they might? i think he should have a right to know, and i know if i was getting married and b.s. was going on behind my back, id want to know before we got hitched. i have been cheated on before and it feels like someone kicked me in the chest where i couldnt breathe. why get married under a false sense of love and trust. what you do guys think?

2007-02-02 06:40:48 · 17 answers · asked by brianju 2

Before I met the guy that I'm with now "Andy", I was cheating on one of my girl friends with her long-term boyfriend, "Mike". And now that I'm with Andy (who is the best friend of Mike), I still can't stop cheating with Mike! I know it's wrong, but how can I break off my ties with Mike without it being weird? No one knows that we have been hooking up, so if I tell him it's over and he reacts badly, how can my friends not know that something is up? I love Andy and don't want to hurt him, and especially don't want my affair with Mike to be found out by him. Any suggestions?

2007-02-02 06:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by truebrunette 1

There is a 21 year old at my church. She is pretty and educated and is really nice. She is kinda like the youth group leader there. Well, theres this guy that goes and hes the preachers son... and I found out that she has been sending naked pictures to him!! and he is 16 and she is 21. I am 100% positive this is true and I asked him about it and he said " yeah it's true, but don't tell anybody." Well you know, I just had to tell my best friend that goes to our church also, so I wrote her a note and I changed pants and threw the pants in the washer and my mom found the note and yeahh lets just say she knows all about it. She says she has to tell. I mean when I think about it, she is 21 and he's 16 and that's illegal and I know that if she were a guy and he were a girl things would be a whole lot worse. but her grandpa and grandma have been going there for like 40 years and her mom and dad do too, and they are really respected there. I don't want to break the church up. what do I do?

2007-02-02 06:39:22 · 1 answers · asked by KATiE 1

i mean when you talk to say your gf...does it bother her if you brag about other chicks to her??

2007-02-02 06:39:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 06:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by beeatch984 1

Ok well he likes me "supposedly" a lot .. but unlike other guys he doesnt really wanna have interestin conversations w/me.we only text and its just small talk.. and I feel kinda bad b/c he is always inviting me to do different things.. && i am so busy or things just come up and I cant [at least not too often] hang with him. & one more thing.. lol im not really interested in him. like evryone tells me hes a nice guy. but eh. hes just "alrite" to me... ;/ How should I deal with him? I dont want to blow him off or be mean but i dont relaly think i want to go out with him..

2007-02-02 06:38:38 · 16 answers · asked by Chellebelle 1

Something weird has happened in my relationship...when my b/f and I first got together it was 3 1/2 yrs ago..we were younger then and we always butted heads...we bickered a lot and got in fights a lot...I used to be the clingy one who wanted attention and to spend time together, and he was always the hard a$$ who wanted to spend time w/his friends...All of a sudden he has been really into our relationship...for the past year (I don't know if him moving to Japan to be in the Navy has anything to do with it) but he is really attentive now and almost too clingy himself!! Why did he go from one extreme to the next? He's talking marriage now and how he never wants to be apart from me....
weird huh?

2007-02-02 06:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

IT WAS AN ACCIDENT

i was at a party and he shoved his hand up my barbie skirt and said wassup doc. i was like omdz this cant be happening.
but he used 2 date me but he cheated on me with my best m8 so i went for it and fort it was sorta revenge.

now im pregnant and i duno what 2 do, im scared cos i no the baby will be ginger...if i have a bath of coke and lemonade will the pregnancy go away??

help needed. thanks.

2007-02-02 06:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend can cry anytime he wants to -- at the drop of a hat. The other day I jokinly told him he wasn't a good singer, and a minute our two later he had real tears streaming down his cheeks! We laughed about it at the time, and he promised he would never fake it over something serious.

But, still...

2007-02-02 06:38:31 · 2 answers · asked by mistaken4sane 4

UGLY

2007-02-02 06:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by Daisy 1

My boy and I have been dating for about a year and a half. I live up north while he is (sadly) down south for a few months for training. We promised to save money this year, but I feel that he deserves a small gift for being so great to me. Any suggestions? He loves the outdoors and history..

2007-02-02 06:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by short stuff 1

i never been on a date befor and i'm only seventeen

2007-02-02 06:37:32 · 4 answers · asked by Brittany B 1

Should I get her a V-day gift from Victoria Secret or something more daring from Fredericks of Hollywood? Which would you prefer girls?

2007-02-02 06:37:26 · 14 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3

2007-02-02 06:36:35 · 15 answers · asked by beeatch984 1

Need advice fast........?
okay so there is this guy in the grocery store he is soooo cute. i go in the store all the time but he works as a cashier and his line is always full. i always go in the express line 15 items or less because i never have more than 15 items to go in his line the non express line. i was thinking about going there today and buying 16 yogurts so i can go in his line instead of the express line. i think about him all the time. what should i do?

2007-02-02 06:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Missy 1

how do girls feel about guys wanting to be more feminine.

2007-02-02 06:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by hello. 1

2007-02-02 06:34:34 · 10 answers · asked by sweetlilpea 1

Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.

2007-02-02 06:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5

I am white but I just think half white half black girls combine the best of both races.

Plus the skin tone is perfect - Not too dark and not too light. Don't accuse me of anything because we all know that many people in the world have a fetish for a particular race. I'm not the only one. Besides, it's no crime to have a fetish for a race or a mixed race. Different races have different physical characteristics so it's not wrong to prefer one races characteristics over another races characteristics. Afterall beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

I'm just wondering if anyone else has a fetish for half white half black girls.

2007-02-02 06:33:35 · 3 answers · asked by Whatever 1

Being as I am in the older catagory of 35 I was brought up to be asked out, and have doors opened and stuff, deep down even though there is equality now I still prefer a gentlman to ask me out, open doors etc etc, as it makes a woman feel so nice, do you agree or disagree, be interesting to know your ages too, and whether it relates to your opinions...

2007-02-02 06:33:29 · 14 answers · asked by greatdane 2