Singles & Dating - 2 February 2007

I know two girls who are very good-looking, but are very critical and judgmental of lots of guys, manipulative and often get them to do their **** work. They also have no respect for some guys like me and like to challenge my masculinity (I know they gossip behind my back saying I'm lousy and a wimp and etc). How can I deal with these difficult women who are trying to reduce my self-esteem and assault my masculinity?

2007-02-02 00:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my best friends just lost his girlfriend last night. It was done heartlessly and cruelly. The very same thing happened to me not long ago... I want to help him, make him feel better but im not sure how to approach it. I can only really suggest that time is a healer (I think it is gradually working with me) but what can I do in the mean time??
Should I ask if he wants to talk about it?...offer a shoulder to lean on and an ear to listen? the 'forget about her and lets go get wasted' approach? I see him tonight and I need some guidance..

2007-02-02 00:18:05 · 21 answers · asked by L666 1

My girlfriend (of almost ten months) who is 22 and I 26 were have dinner at my place when I noticed I forgot to get the wine from the cellar in the basement. Since I was cooking I asked her if she would get it, she said yes and went to get the wine. So I’m thinking my little brother, eleven who is staying with me for a while (and makes it he's duty to scare the hell out of people) is sleeping in his room...when I remember I should have told her the basement door sometimes gets jammed from the inside. Well I’m heading toward the basement when I the shattering sound of a wine glass break. When I get to the basement as I thought the door had jammed from the inside and my girlfriend was banging on the door. Then out of nowhere I hear this loud ROAR! As I opened the door the entire basement was pitch black. And as I looked down at my girlfriend’s terrified face, I noticed her entire body was trembling. I was surprised at seeing her like this but when I looked down even further I noticed that she had literally WET HER PANTS!!! Sure enough my brother came out laughing in victory at the way he turned off the lights and jumping out of the darkness-screaming ROAR! He ran off to his room knowing I would deal with him later.
Anyway all of a sudden she started to sob wrapping her arms around herself, crying over and over. “Oh no, I-I didn’t mean to- I’m sorry, I’m sooo sor-ry.” I held her close telling her that every thing was all right. Rubbing her back and hair, I didn’t care that she was wet, I just wanted her to stop crying. She was hysterical, trembling from head to toe; clutching on to me with a death grip. She cried until she could cry no more, she felt so weak in my arms. When she had calmed down I helped her clean up, and laid beside her as she fell a sleep. Even though I wanted to know why she reacted the way she did I didn’t ask. Let me just say this again… I WAS SHOCKED!!!!!

Should I ask her or forget and never bring it up?

2007-02-02 00:17:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does any1 know any website that has ideas for the valentine's day..like home-made gifts and cards and all..
I only got lovingyou.com and adoringyou.com

anything else ? thx

2007-02-02 00:17:38 · 2 answers · asked by rosa 1

This guy has been extra showering extra attention to me. I've hinted to him that gossips are going around and we had better keep our distance. He was upset for several days after my "hint". Now, 2 months down the road, my crush on him is no less, but we will never be an item, so I intend to bury it deep down my heart. recently we had dinner together and I feel that he still enjoys my company, but somehow he seems to give reasons for any single thing that might give me the wrong idea that he is giving me extra attention. I have no idea how the incident had affected him. It is also tormenting me, since i like him, what should i do to forget him as i simply face him the entire work week?

2007-02-02 00:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by isabella 2

I'm not one them I love it, just wondered if anyone out there doesn't like it?

2007-02-02 00:14:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've a friend (girl of course).... she's very close to me.... I love her a lot... I proposed her and she got angry and didnt even speak to me 4 6 months... This happened nearly 3 years back... I met her almost 4 years back.... she was my classmate in school and v were good friends before this incident.... Now we r friends again and our relationship has improved a lot inspite of what happend....... But she still treats me as a friend...... she's single... and so am i...

2007-02-02 00:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been dating 3 months now. He's totally great. we love eachother...and there is nothing wrong with our relationship anymore (we had some problems cause he found out i still had a lil crush on his brother) but thats over. and, i just bought 2 concert tickets for his birthday and he loves them. he loves me. but i want to do something amazing for valentines day.
neither of us have any money. he still hasnt got his license yet...so we cant do much. but i need something really special because i really love him and i want the best for him. what can i do?

2007-02-02 00:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by amberlynn 2

well me and him were talking but not in peron like chattin on the computer.well i asked him and he said yes if we get to know each other better. well then he asked why i like him.. i said he was funny cute and nice...and he said i was nice too.does that means he likes me

2007-02-02 00:03:19 · 13 answers · asked by steph 1