This guy has been extra showering extra attention to me. I've hinted to him that gossips are going around and we had better keep our distance. He was upset for several days after my "hint". Now, 2 months down the road, my crush on him is no less, but we will never be an item, so I intend to bury it deep down my heart. recently we had dinner together and I feel that he still enjoys my company, but somehow he seems to give reasons for any single thing that might give me the wrong idea that he is giving me extra attention. I have no idea how the incident had affected him. It is also tormenting me, since i like him, what should i do to forget him as i simply face him the entire work week?
2007-02-02 00:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him - for whatever reason the "hint" freaked him out and now he wants to make sure you realize "he's just not that into you". Maintain whatever work relationship you have and accept thats all there will be.
2007-02-02 00:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm ...if its a co-worker, it is tricky. i suggest that you harden your heart (i know it is tough) and let time reveal. I mean how long do you know this chap and how well do you know him? Some guys send the wrong signals but just to surround themselves with attentive girls and maybe give the wrong idea. Not that he might be one of them. but better be safe than sorry. ignore what others have to say but yet listen to those whom you can trust to see what they got to say about this guy. i think until he says something which i think he should cos he seems to take hints, better just remain cordial. i think if you want to forget him, maybe you should stop seeing him. dont add fuel to the fire to keep it burning!
2007-02-02 08:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation! I would just continue with what is going on at the moment; friendship and let it grow and takes its own natural path. If it develope further into more intimate, fine. Otherwise it will remain friendship. But I would not try to keep our distance. Stupid thing to do.
Let your friendship bloom into its natural course.
2007-02-02 08:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was also a co-worker. We met at work at I knew it was love at first sight. We tried to keep it quiet put people noticed. Luckily it did not interfere with our work.
2007-02-02 08:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Workplace romances are always a bad idea. You are very wise to hide your feelings, as it is obvious that he only wants to be your friend.
2007-02-02 08:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have sex with him and try to see if that causes you to go off him... sexual tension is a terrible thing.. :D
2007-02-02 08:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋