I know two girls who are very good-looking, but are very critical and judgmental of lots of guys, manipulative and often get them to do their **** work. They also have no respect for some guys like me and like to challenge my masculinity (I know they gossip behind my back saying I'm lousy and a wimp and etc). How can I deal with these difficult women who are trying to reduce my self-esteem and assault my masculinity?
2007-02-02 00:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These girls also are leaders of their own girl groups and derive satisfaction from putting guys down. They are very perfectionistic, spoilt and think they are socially elite.
2007-02-02 00:22:40 · update #1
Ignore them. They are shallow, annoying people that thrive on making others feel bad and the attention it gives them. They will self-destruct eventually.
2007-02-09 04:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When people talk about you it's usually things they are saying about themselves. These girls sound immature and have low self esteem, if they have such high self esteem then they would not be talking about anyone. Just observe them when they are doing these thing and I bet you will find some flaws they have that you see. Don't even give them the time of day and don't waste your time and energy on any of them.
2007-02-10 03:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by 1TON 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Agree with the first answer. They are perfectionist and spoilt.
So if they making you all the shity work tell them firmly that you had enough of this ****. It is time to get rid of Mr Nice guy in you.
They may appear beautiful but **** that. Whats the use if they are beautiful on the outside and fugly in the inside. So **** it!
2007-02-10 02:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by myvampiredrak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't even need to get involved with these girls at all. The best way to hurt them back would be to ignore them (it tells them that they're nobody special to you).
As for your self esteem, continue to do whatever you're doing and enjoy it. Don't ever worry about being too arrogant. Start working out at the gym, buy new clothes and treat yourself from time to time.
2007-02-03 01:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well, you cannot avoid these type of girls roaming around your school. They are typically called the "mean girls". The best way is to ignore them. Unless, you are attractive to them that's why you're affected. if this is the case, then do something to improve yourself. Go to the gym, change your style, get a hair cut.. if after you did all these things and their treatment to you did not change.. don't waste your time with these girls they're not worth of your time!
2007-02-10 06:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by leila a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bug you, lies don't equal truth. Be happy knowing that one day they will be serving you breakfast at Dennys, while your Corvette is outside warming up. Hint: Leave a lousy tip.
2007-02-10 04:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by alaskan_hammer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from broads like that. deep down, theyre probably really lacking something called character. maybe all they have going for them is looks and thats it. i feel sorry for them when they get old and start to lose their looks, then what will they have going for them. boys are their toys, theyre probably young, dumb and full of !@#. dont even bother with them. you can surround yourself with a better class of people who will appreciate what you have to offer.
2007-02-10 06:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋