My girlfriend (of almost ten months) who is 22 and I 26 were have dinner at my place when I noticed I forgot to get the wine from the cellar in the basement. Since I was cooking I asked her if she would get it, she said yes and went to get the wine. So I’m thinking my little brother, eleven who is staying with me for a while (and makes it he's duty to scare the hell out of people) is sleeping in his room...when I remember I should have told her the basement door sometimes gets jammed from the inside. Well I’m heading toward the basement when I the shattering sound of a wine glass break. When I get to the basement as I thought the door had jammed from the inside and my girlfriend was banging on the door. Then out of nowhere I hear this loud ROAR! As I opened the door the entire basement was pitch black. And as I looked down at my girlfriend’s terrified face, I noticed her entire body was trembling. I was surprised at seeing her like this but when I looked down even further I noticed that she had literally WET HER PANTS!!! Sure enough my brother came out laughing in victory at the way he turned off the lights and jumping out of the darkness-screaming ROAR! He ran off to his room knowing I would deal with him later.
Anyway all of a sudden she started to sob wrapping her arms around herself, crying over and over. “Oh no, I-I didn’t mean to- I’m sorry, I’m sooo sor-ry.” I held her close telling her that every thing was all right. Rubbing her back and hair, I didn’t care that she was wet, I just wanted her to stop crying. She was hysterical, trembling from head to toe; clutching on to me with a death grip. She cried until she could cry no more, she felt so weak in my arms. When she had calmed down I helped her clean up, and laid beside her as she fell a sleep. Even though I wanted to know why she reacted the way she did I didn’t ask. Let me just say this again… I WAS SHOCKED!!!!!
Should I ask her or forget and never bring it up?
2007-02-02 00:17:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would love to not bring it up but I fell like there some deeper issue. She had this hunted look in her eyes as if she was reliving something horrible.
2007-02-02 00:39:23 · update #1
Its NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. if u really care for this girl, after few days try to talk about this ;weave it in to conversation;don't ask directly.
i think she had some past unpleasant experience of some sort.Do ask ;only if shes comfortable with it.
you say she was repeating that"I'm sorry i didn't do it" if you know her background; has she ever been around people who've been abusive to her in any way,when she was young was she being held responsible for wetting herself or repetedly abused for similar child-like behavior ?,try to find out coz she sounds very stirred .
Take .Care of her ,love and be supportive but don't over do it .
2007-02-02 00:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by k.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask but always be there for her. One day she'll feel the need to talk. Please be good to her. It sounds like she may have a true issue to deal with. Just love her. This story hurts my heart.
2007-02-02 00:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never bring it up again
2007-02-02 00:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not ask her just conferred her and let her know you love her
2007-02-02 00:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by T-Money 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont bring it up
2007-02-02 00:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Cavegirl948 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋