Singles & Dating - 22 January 2007

my bf and i been together for last two months. he told me about his ex of about two yrs? that it's completely over and resolved. but he's been acting suspicous so i checked his phone and i found text messages that says that they are more than friends. i confronted him but he says he's been going through some complications and needed to speak to her about it because they were really close friends. and that he is not cheating on me. after the confrontation he told me he will call his ex and tell her that their relationship is hurting me and they should stop talking. i know i can't trust him like i use to and he said he will try to earn my trust again. should i believe this guy? i really like him and i think he likes me too. and the bad part is that i understand that feeling of attachment can be hard to break. should i give him a chance? guys help me!!

2007-01-22 03:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by heartbroken 1

i went out with this girl i like last week and she said she likes me 2 but the whole night she never really spoke to me much just to her friend but then she started talking a lot when we were walking home together just me and her and her mum drove past and she turned down getting a lift home and walked home with me instead this tells me she wanted to spend more time with me but im getting mixed signals what do u think is going on in her head do u think she really does want me or not?

2007-01-22 03:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am throwing a superbowl party in my basement for me my friends and some girls i wanna hook up with. The girl i want has a boyfriend but her friends tell her she likes me and thinks im hot. She will probably kiss me but her boyfriend is is my friend i really want to kiss her because she is really hott. But i believe she well tell her boyfriend, im not afriad of him but its sort of mean what should i do?

2007-01-22 03:48:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal for the guy to be tired after but for the girl to be wide awake?? Should she want to do it again or will it just piss him off??
He says he is tired until he opens his eyes and sees me there. Why does it go away like that?? Why is he tired when he has his eyes closed but not when his eyes are open??

2007-01-22 03:45:56 · 2 answers · asked by Sakura 1

I have been dating this guy for about a month and he is super sweet and such a gentleman. There are two things about him that I don't like though. He dips and he on occassion has told me he smokes something other than tobacco. I had never been around him doing that until this weekend and I really don't want to be involved in that kind of thing. What should I do?

2007-01-22 03:45:11 · 8 answers · asked by kittymeu1 1

2007-01-22 03:42:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dating this senior and he would always call me and we would talk for hours. when we started dating he would never talk to me b/c it was wierd b/c i was hes bf step sister.the friday we broke up i found out he was going out on a date with a 9th grader. Hes going to college in like 4 months. I juss don't understand.

2007-01-22 03:42:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes people just give these looks that make u wonder what their thinking....u know what i mean

2007-01-22 03:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

and why can't I say the word etiquette?

2007-01-22 03:41:41 · 29 answers · asked by JADE GOODY 2 HOOVES 1

2007-01-22 03:41:15 · 4 answers · asked by julia1975 4

she is my college mate.v r just casual frds basically and there is a cultural divide.but i dont care abt that.she talks to me and all.no use asking me to ask her out and all as she is veryy starightforward type gal and her parents are the strictest ones one could ever encounter.i just wana know whether she likes me or not!

2007-01-22 03:40:30 · 11 answers · asked by vishnu m 1

Where I live firefighters are not seen that "hot", I've been talking to girls on the net and when I tell them that I am a firefighter they go crazy. What's with the uniform?

2007-01-22 03:39:27 · 32 answers · asked by troubadour 3

I've been with my boyfriend now for 10 months. There is this girl that he came pretty close to hooking up with who lives in another state pretty far off from where he and I live. They were head over heals for each other. They met in real life once almost 2 years ago. However he still talks to her online every day and they flirt all the time even though she is (unhappily) married and he is with me. I brought it up to both of them but it hasn't changed. They still flirt a lot. I told him that I don't talk that way with any of my guy friends because I think it's wrong since he is my bf and I respect him. Do other people have bf's who flirt with girls online? Am I wrong for being upset about this? What should I do to stop it? I know they are friends, so I don't want to say "Stop talking to her"...

2007-01-22 03:38:59 · 11 answers · asked by Jensies 2

I'm dating this guy, we been going out for three months now, we had no problems in the last three months, but now he wants me to give up my viginity to him and i am not ready, so we having a lot of issus becuz of that. i don't know what to do. i like him, but i'm not ready.

2007-01-22 03:38:40 · 13 answers · asked by KAY 1

she says "it's over" but she wants to remain friends.i'm confused emotionally on how to deal with my situation.

2007-01-22 03:38:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does this man I like smirk, go a bit red and look down at the floor when I come into the room and greet him? We get on really well and hes back to normal after a minute. It's just when I first walk in. He used to smile and look me in the eyes. His clothes have changed too. He used to be quite casual now if he knows he will see me he's in a shirt and tie and he's clean shaven. Whats up with him? I actually posted this question earlier and was surprised that people said he fancied me. He's not supposed to fancy me and I'm not supposed to fancy him. Lets just say it's a question of ethics. I do though but what do I do about it? I have no choice but to see him sometimes. Does anyone else agree that he does and how would we get over the ethical barrier? He's really special and I don't want the chance to go by out of fear.

2007-01-22 03:37:21 · 12 answers · asked by Michele 3

My fiance and I are going on vacation while we are both on spring break. We are both graduate students. We live in Northeast Tennessee. We have $1000 to spend. Where should we go on that budget? Any suggestions are welcome. Thank you in advance

2007-01-22 03:36:13 · 9 answers · asked by jrhod263 3

Nice guys/Good guys I can see, but NICE GIRLS/GOOD GIRLS...sorry I don't see it. So help me out ladies (or guys), do they really finish last or it's just a myth?

2007-01-22 03:36:10 · 2 answers · asked by Earache My Eye 3

Should I ask a guy to ask him out for me I relly need help from both Guys a Girls.

2007-01-22 03:35:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom has known this guy, Jason, for about 20 years. (mom is 40 and guy is 29) he is like a brother to me. Over the summer i lost interest in guys and im not really sure if i like anybody or not. my friend thinks that im a lesbian and wants me to be straight. he told me that maybe if i force myself to tell a guy that i love him and i want to be with him then i might have like guys. i was really stressed out and started cutting myself and then started smoking. when i got my cell phone, i started texting Jason and telling him everything that has been bothering me. I still dont feel the same towards guys, but i stopped cutting myself and smoking until my parents took my phone away. after reading all the text messages i had sent telling him that i loved him and wanted to be with him, they started flipping out. I'm only 16, and i wouldnt even think about doing anything with him. he's not allowed to come over anymore, and i told my dad everything.....how can i make everything right again???

2007-01-22 03:35:32 · 2 answers · asked by Socastee_Angel 2

Crazy, romantic, passionate, intense or spirtitual?
You are only allowed to pick one!

2007-01-22 03:34:51 · 20 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5

Everytime I ask a question guys say they think my avatar is hot and they ask if I looks that way too.
What is so special about a girl with dark blue eyes and naturally almost black hair??

2007-01-22 03:34:42 · 17 answers · asked by Sakura 1

I do and i just want to know if guys really like it or not!!

2007-01-22 03:34:37 · 21 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2

2007-01-22 03:33:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 03:33:26 · 22 answers · asked by badbarry 1

Ladies and Gentleman,

Would a good-looking young man, in your opinion, be rendered less so were he possessed of a full (but neatly trimmed) beard?

Thanks!

2007-01-22 03:30:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Explain what that is or how you do it, im just curious.

2007-01-22 03:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by shanipooh2004 1

Would you please describe, according to you, the most romantic date?

2007-01-22 03:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can they get over that person and how long can it take?

2007-01-22 03:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal for the guy to be tired after but for the girl to be wide awake?? Should she want to do it again or will it just piss him off??
He says he is tired until he opens his eyes and sees me there. Why does it go away like that?? Why is he tired when he has his eyes closed but not when his eyes are open??

2007-01-22 03:29:20 · 2 answers · asked by Sakura 1