Should I ask a guy to ask him out for me I relly need help from both Guys a Girls.
2007-01-22 03:35:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Help! please
2007-01-22 03:37:02 · update #1
Personally i belive that the guy should ask the girl so what you should do is get a friend who knows him to ask him what he thinks of you and if he likes you, you should have said friend encourage the asking of you out.
2007-01-22 03:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Juhboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone with a boyfriend before you're 25 and establishing your own identity -- and pondering whether or not he's serious... is absolulely wasting your life. Move on, and get a guy later on. There's a ton of living from 25-45 (think about it, you've only been truly conscious for a few years, now). Worrying about 'boys' when you're 13-16 etc. is natural - but in today's age its simply a hindrance to learning, contributing to society, realizing your potential and growing out of the norms set by others. Your mom & dad (and grandparents, aunts/uncles, etc.) may have done it all right, even marrying early. But for you, you're throwing time away wondering about boy friends, when you could be reading, studying, developing business ideas, etc. Drop him and you grow girl. ( -- why not copy/paste anywhere this applies to young women wasting time/thoughts/energy?)
2007-01-22 03:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should go for it. If u want something go and get it. sometimes guys just dont get the clues that women give them, and they need a little help that is all
2007-01-22 03:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by RYAN S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to suck it up and do it yourself just walk up to him start a conversation and if that goes well throw in at the end something like "hey ya wanna go out and do something this weekend" or something along those lines ya know?
2007-01-30 00:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to a party or gathering with you and his friends. Keep it social to avoid awkwardness but still allowing you and him to get some quality time together.
2007-01-22 03:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you dont know him well you should do that first... then ask him out to do some group activity first.. then dates~
2007-01-30 03:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him and tell him you would like to know if he would like to go to lunch with you and start from their . good luck
2007-01-30 03:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him yourself.. it shows confidence and shows you really are interested!!
2007-01-30 00:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by lollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋