Singles & Dating - 17 January 2007

I have been talking to this guy whom I am smitten over and I think he has an eye out for me too. Friends have said to me that he likes the chase...Which is fine, i'll play.

What is the best strategy for "playing hard to get"? Do guys really like that?

I want to seem unavailible but not TOO unavailible. But at the same time I want to be availible too. It is really hard for me to do, we were at the same bar last night and I wanted to be right by his side all night but I did good and did my own thing...Let him come to me. It worked but IT'S HARD!!! Any advice on how to speed up the process so I can stop playing games?

2007-01-17 05:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know my boyfriend loves me, but it sometimes seems like he loves his best friend more than he loves me. I completely understand that he should be able to spend good quality time with his friends, but it seems like they spend a little too much time together, and it takes up all my bfs time, and he's not able to spend that much time with me. It seems like every time I talk to him about coming over on a friday evening, he'll tell me that he can't because his friend is spending the weekend.... how much quality time does one guy need with his friend?! Am I just being overly possessive?

2007-01-17 05:31:00 · 8 answers · asked by Tara 2

we have been seeing each other for 2 1/2 monts and are officially dating as of this week hes attentive and listens well and very affectionate and open but hes not very aggressive at somethings im dominate/independant and would like to play the submissive role sometimes i have been single for 3 1/2 yrs and would like a man to pamper and take charge so i dont have to do all the work all the time any sugesstions??

2007-01-17 05:29:47 · 16 answers · asked by sheri h 1

I feel good when a guy checks me out, but when I see a ring on his finger I feel sick to my stomach. How can I understand guys so I don't get so sensitive if a guy I dates "checks out other girls"?

2007-01-17 05:29:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Stop the bull. Most girls fall for rich guys that either have money, power, or social status. Whats the quickest way for me to make myself appear like a baller. Nobody ever got anywhere telling a girl something corny like, I think your pretty.

2007-01-17 05:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

PS yes, this particular pirhanna plagues me, but it brought up the larger issue of whether it's an individual personal problem, or just really common.- ??

2007-01-17 05:27:54 · 11 answers · asked by starryeyed 6

i had a relationship with a boy 4 three years..
i feel so empty..

2007-01-17 05:27:50 · 16 answers · asked by narnia-gal 1

... when i like my ex boyfriend who cheated on me. he admitted it and for his honesty i still like him. what do i do

2007-01-17 05:27:11 · 5 answers · asked by NIKKI S 2

Hey!I like this guy very,very much!!!We go to school together,he's a year older than me!He's watchin me for4 months,and I'm watching him too....But it's starting to get boring,all of my friends told me that he likes me,and that i SHOULD DO SOMETHIM,but I don't have any plan how to talk to him or something.....he's very shy and I don't thing that he's going to do something very soon.....We talked once,but he was to shy even to look into my eyes...do you have some plan????Please help!!!!

2007-01-17 05:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

with her and met her needs. She would take me to the super bowl!

Now she has this large bowl of chereos and milk out for me....what the heck is that?

2007-01-17 05:26:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will it be ok to tell him to save his money till he finds a place to live.
I kicked him out cause his ex was calling.
now i feel bad cause he has no place to live.
I figure I will tell him - Im tired of being #2 in your life so get your self together and go.
What do you think?

2007-01-17 05:26:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 05:26:32 · 1 answers · asked by shorty wanna ride wit me!!!!!!!! 1

Guy Question?
im in 9th grade and the guy i like is in 10th. hes so adorable and funny and he is just great all around. one of my friends who happens to be his best friend told me that he thought i was really cute. so i would stop by his locker to talk to him as we walked to the bus and he would say hi to me in the halls and stuff. we would talk online myspace for hours till i had to delete my profile because of my parents. last night i talked to him for 3 hours (9-12). Ive never felt so happy as i do when i talk to him. I know i like him, ALOT, but im not sure if he likes me. what do you all think? and what can i do to make him think im interested in him and make him interested in me? i need help!

2007-01-17 05:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by confused 3

been dating this guy for a month now and all is good so far.. i mean he's considerate, reliable, helpful and somebody i could talk to! he also very honest and a bit critical sometimes... all in all he's cool, but he said something that bothered me last week... he said if you're looking for love in NY, you're looking to get hurt, and the best thing to do is get a puppy because a puppy won't lie to you! he then contradicted his statemented by saying if you love me, i'll love you back, huh? i'm 26 and don't want to waste my time on somebody who doesn't believe in love.. i've also been hurt by love in the past.. but don't say it doesn't exist... he's a nice guy, but i'm wondering if am wasting my time.. what do you guys think?

2007-01-17 05:26:28 · 7 answers · asked by chocy 1

Because i am going to get one to pick up a date.What kind of puppies do gals like?

2007-01-17 05:25:40 · 3 answers · asked by walter_nahbexie 2

2007-01-17 05:24:45 · 12 answers · asked by soccernuttt2000 2

2007-01-17 05:24:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any men out there who think pornography is degrading and respects their significant other enough to keep that crap out of his life? Please be honest!

2007-01-17 05:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by xquis81 3

Me and my boyfriend Mark has been broken up for about 4 months now. Im 14 about 2 be 15. Im in a new realtionship with a new guy Chaz. But i havent had sex with the new boyfriend yet. I havent cheated on MArk or nuthin. The reason of or break up was to see new pple. i dont know how to tell Mark that im pregant with his baby. And we dont even talk anymore. or nothing. Im afraid of his reaction. Because when we was together Mark heard rumors that i cheated on him when i really didn't. I am despreate 4 advice. Im 100% sure that Mark is the baby's father.And only I and my new boyfriend Chaz knows this....

2007-01-17 05:21:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I Dont Think Shes Gonna Cheat On Me. She Told Me She Never Would never cheat on me. and too neverrr think that and she gets mad when i mess with and say that she has a another b/f but im just playin wit her. Were 15 lol. btw pretty young i know. but i like her alot. and i fell for her quick and she fell for me quick. I Trust her alottt but i just dont wanna lose her. i love her. and i think that im just really scared to lose her.

2007-01-17 05:19:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the chances of meeting your true love online through a dating site? I am going on a date tonight with someone I met on Yahoo Personals and I am nervous

2007-01-17 05:18:40 · 6 answers · asked by xquis81 3

So last week this guy that ive like for the last year started calling me everyday, and we'd talk for awhile and usually 2-3 times a day, all of a sudden we went out on sunday night and were talking about going to the movies this weekend, we had planned for it we just werent sure on time or day yet. we left and he texted me when he got home, and i havent heard from him yet. i called him 3 times on monday, like 4 hours apart, and tried to text him 2times. then yesterday i called once and texted once. im just trying to figure out why he all of sudden wont talk to me. i mean he asked me out, and now he wont call me. the thing is he acted interested and sounded like he was looking forward to this weekend. i really like him and dont want to act desperate so im not calling him...but how long should i wait? im just not sure if i should just give up or wait. it just seems silly to me. Hopefully someone can give me some insight HELP please.

2007-01-17 05:17:37 · 1 answers · asked by jenpen 2

I've been on a few dating sites and to be honest found some really weird people on them, not all, and paying for that privilege. I am an outgoing person with a wicked sense of humour, told Im very attractive but get nowhere - and dont say Im looking too hard, truth is Im not but every now and again Im reminded that Im on my own

2007-01-17 05:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by runningbabe 2

its true you know, women cant control who they like, just as much as men cant control who they physically like

2007-01-17 05:15:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

To whom you have never talked but know about him as a classmate.

2007-01-17 05:15:03 · 7 answers · asked by uv 2

2007-01-17 05:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by tammar2002 1

Men: A girl you know is interested gives you her number...
Women: What do you do when guys call you?

When you call

1. Generally answer the first time you call her
2. If you leave a message does she call back
3. How many calls does it take to get in touch

2007-01-17 05:13:55 · 2 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

I’m a guy and I have never been on a single date, not because I don’t want to, but because I haven’t met the right girl yet. People think I’m weird for waiting for the right girl to come along, because that could take ages, but I think of all the free time I have to prepare for when the right girl does come along. I would be able to have financial security, a steady job and a home of my own, all ready for when Mrs. Right does come along. Where as if I was just dating anybody, I doubt I would have any of that, because having a girlfriend would cost a lot of money, especially if she gets pregnant. So am I weird not dating just anyone and waiting for Mrs. Right or just being sensible?

2007-01-17 05:13:05 · 24 answers · asked by The Devil 1

i really love him but i want to forget him. and i dont know what to do. plz help

2007-01-17 05:11:54 · 6 answers · asked by chica loca 2

2007-01-17 05:11:14 · 18 answers · asked by shhhh 1