I’m a guy and I have never been on a single date, not because I don’t want to, but because I haven’t met the right girl yet. People think I’m weird for waiting for the right girl to come along, because that could take ages, but I think of all the free time I have to prepare for when the right girl does come along. I would be able to have financial security, a steady job and a home of my own, all ready for when Mrs. Right does come along. Where as if I was just dating anybody, I doubt I would have any of that, because having a girlfriend would cost a lot of money, especially if she gets pregnant. So am I weird not dating just anyone and waiting for Mrs. Right or just being sensible?
2007-01-17 05:13:05 · 24 answers · asked by The Devil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're not weird and you are sensible but see it from the point of view of others as well. being with someone seems to make everything good come back to you...especially if things have really sucked for along time....just because you are not with mrs. right doesnt mean that you're with someone who isn't right for you
2007-01-17 05:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track for waiting, but then at the same time, why not date. See what you like, what you don't like, what you cold potentially like. Dating is an experience that everyone should have. Not every girl out there is look for a man to get married to. Some girls just want to have fun. Not like being loose but just trying new things and new people. Also I think that a lot of people are just in love with the idea of "love" so they look for it or go into a relationship with a jaded view of things. That is why so many people get married and they get divorce because they are in-love with the idea and not the person. Also s far as being financial stable and having your ducks in a row...It will never happen you will never be as ready as you want to be for a relationship. Sometimes it takes the struggle with that one girl to see who is really in it to win it. But take your time and do not let anyone rush you...yo patience and hard work will pay off.
2007-01-17 13:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your being sensible but way to extreme... you need to get out there and experience the world of women, this does not mean that your gonna be a bad man but some experience is always better then no experience at all and why in the world do you think your first few times dating are gonna possibly turn into marriage.. I think you should leave that way alone until you've actually experienced a few long term relationships and you should have some fun :) :) :)
2007-01-17 13:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
personally I think that is a great thing to be wanting mrs right, and my self being a female can tell you that some woman out there tend to be greedy and gold diggers and I think you should continue to do what you are doing and eventually mrs right will come to you and from the sounds of it you are a mr. right that some lucky woman is looking for and hopfully you will find each other soon.... good luck
2007-01-17 13:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by angel b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sensible. I'm proud of you.
But, before trying to find your Mrs. Right, try dating people that you seem attracted to. It's a good way to discover what qualities in people you really enjoy, and which ones you really, well, don't. You'll be a wiser man when it comes to finding Mrs. Right.
Hang in there! She'll run into you sooner than you think.
2007-01-17 13:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are weird at all just sensible you can go on a date without it costing much and if you have a girlfriend don't spend lots of money on her some flowers is nice about getting pregnant then sorry it takes two so use a condom
2007-01-17 15:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres nothing wrong with what you are doing. But you do have good intentions but I say while you wait for this mrs right have fun with all the mrs wrongs try dating it dosent have to be serious just for fun you might as well enjoy it while you can because when you do finally find mrs right and settle down thats pretty much it. Now worrying bout pregnancy even when you do find her its called protection till you are both ready for kids.
2007-01-17 13:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by amethyst m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol no I am waiting for who I hope will be Mr. Right... I don't see the sense in wasting my time with someone that will hurt me or to get in a relationship I know won't last. Sure, I'd like to have a boyfriend, but I don't want just anybody.
I think you're perfectly fine in your choice and should stick by it. There is a girl out there for you worth waiting for :) Good luck in finding her.
2007-01-17 13:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you're not weird...i'd say you're sensible. although you don't have to be too prepared, having a girlfriend doesn't necessarily mean marriage, kids and a people carrier. it's okay to date people for a bit of fun...but how old are you? if you're still a teenager then i think you're being very sensible (i feel the same way), but if you're in your twenties or older, don't worry too much about preparation; either way, you're not weird and i do hope you find Mrs. Right.
2007-01-17 15:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'll give you one piece of advice, you'll never find Mrs. Right, without meeting a few Mrs. Wrongs. Its like to know happiness you have to have known pain. Go and date people you find nice and attractive, if you view women as an expense, then you really need to adjust your view on the situation too.
2007-01-17 13:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋