Singles & Dating - 12 December 2006

So I got to thinking. I really want to know what's going on in a guys noggin. I used to think it was a women who cooked, cleaned, listen, gave great sex, watch sports, and have great conversation. So really what are men looking for ? I'm curious !

2006-12-12 06:46:53 · 23 answers · asked by Mz Jones 2

Okay. I met a guy and he's real sweet to me. Actually he spoils me rotten with attention ,conversation, etc. I just want everyone to no that its not just a materialistic type of relationship. Anyways . I've had my present boyfriend for about 7 years on and off (some good some bad ). He is presently incarcerated. He says that he's changing for the better and in some ways he has grown mentally. The rollercoaster ride is driving me nuts. But I'm scared and I'm at a stand still. My heart doesn't know which way to turn anymore. Oh yeah I forgot to mention that my new friend wants me to move with him temporarily to see if I'd like it in his home town, which by the way is only about an hour away from mine. Should I stay still or leap for joy ?

2006-12-12 06:46:50 · 13 answers · asked by t 1

In a relationship, how long should you wait?!

2006-12-12 06:46:09 · 43 answers · asked by Alex 1

I miss the times when I could go out flirt a lot and get a date but now I don't have the right mood and I have become too responsible and scared of meeting the wrong people

2006-12-12 06:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started to look at on-line dating messages that are posted by other people. I am a guy and not sure how should I answer these to get the girls attention or reply.

2006-12-12 06:43:20 · 5 answers · asked by need a date 1

I am in a relationship and i was wondering if it is fair that i have certian things that i have to do. for example I am in charge of taking out the garbage and changing the cat litter for a cat that i dont even like. She dosent have anything she is just responsible for. but we share all other responsibilitys. Is that fair or not?

2006-12-12 06:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by bsktball_99 1

I was wondering how i could build up my self confidence. when i speak to people that are the same sex as me (male) im fine. but when it comes to women, i dont no what to say. then when i do say somthing i start to get nervous :(

2006-12-12 06:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by jm_girling 1

ok..i am doing a research on dates....help me out! when you are on a date even thats on a restaurant or cinema..whatever....who do you think is gonna pay the money? if for example you are paying the tickets for the movie theater he will pay first or the girl? and what about going to a restaurant later? you cant let the other pay again everything!!! what would you do? every time you are on a date what do you think you should do about the money and especially when you are going on a long date!!!?....Help me oput guys! its a school research for communication and human resources...

2006-12-12 06:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by ursula!!! 3

Lets say a gurl gets a love poem and she knows who it is from.Then she asks sum1 if they know who its from. If she asks wut does it mean cause If she didnt like the guy who wrote it wouldnt she pretend nothing happened and not even bother asking anyone about it?

2006-12-12 06:42:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my bf are having problems. I have already considered breakin' up with him b/c he treats my friends like crap. The only reason I can think of for not breaking up wit him is b/c i have spent alot of money on him for x-mas. It seems like everyday i am just waiting for him to do something wrong so i can break up with him. I have have become more increasingly bored everyday with this relationship. What should I do?

2006-12-12 06:42:25 · 27 answers · asked by Alex 1

I love him but He is among the staff in my university. I really don't know how to tell him. In the univerisyt they don't allowed staff to go out with student.

2006-12-12 06:42:02 · 2 answers · asked by @@@@ 2

2006-12-12 06:39:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15 and i think im in love with my boyfriend. just saturday i spend the nignt over his house and we had sex all night. hes all i ever think of and he feel the same about me. so do u think im in love cuz i think i am

2006-12-12 06:39:28 · 16 answers · asked by bwbabylove 1

There is this guy who works in my gym and i am totally falling for him. We have become really good friends recently and the more i talk to him the more i totaly adore him.
The thing is he is 15 years older than me, which does not bother me at all but i think it might bother him. I really want to ask him out but like all girls im scared of the rejection cause i would still need to see him all the time, that would be akward!!
Anyone got any words of wisdom for me??

2006-12-12 06:39:11 · 9 answers · asked by anastacia500 3

men are you able to look passed a silly and embrassing first impression from a woman that you've known, and the same women that your attracted to after she moves in with you...

2006-12-12 06:38:59 · 1 answers · asked by cute184 1

I AM 23 YEARS OLD AND I CANT GET A DATE WITH A NICE GUY CAUSE ALL THEY WONT TO DO IS HAVE SEX. WHAT EVERY HAPPEN TO GOING OUT AND HAVEING FUN AND GITING TO NO A PERSON THEN WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT THE (S.E.X) WORD COMES IN TO PLAY

2006-12-12 06:38:39 · 12 answers · asked by anitra s 1

i miss my boyfriend and he miss his girlfriend and we had sex! and it was my birthday party.. we are so drunk and im screaming my boyfriends name, then he came up and we do it! he is one of my friend, but i kinda like him since we just first met, well now not just "kinda"... is it sex that only counts? (now we still keepin in touch that we're like together) i feel like ending it up that i know its wrong but feel so right!

2006-12-12 06:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by bianca 1

2006-12-12 06:38:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok imagine a beautifull lady sitting opposite me at a coffee shop. Is there anyway to tell either of the above.

From her body language... smiles ...smoking....shaking her hair...looking away sternly...smiling profusely with the waiter especially when i ogle at her (sorry grammar)

2006-12-12 06:37:58 · 13 answers · asked by Saddam 1

guys what hair colour do you like best on a girl? be honest

2006-12-12 06:37:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me n my ex have started talkin we do love each other but sumtimes i just get the feelin that he does not care cuz he dont really show any effort wen we arent together. i have made mistakes wit him n he has made mistakes wit me. i do need to earn his trust bak cuz i lied bout sum stupid stuff to get his attention in the past. i talked to him bout this and he says he loves me very much n i mean everything to him he told me he knows he doesnt show it but he feels it. how do i kno hes not jsut usingme he says hes not n i think i trust his words cuz i kno he has never lied to me before. i asked him if he was using me for sex n he sed he wud never do htat to me n he has sex wit me cuz he loves me. but i dunno i jsut feel uneasy bout it all cuz we are not togehtert with the title. its jsut really unstable. wat do u think? we were each other first loves n i know he loves me but how do i kno im not just a fill in for now? plz help!! i jsut need sum real god advice. thanks.

2006-12-12 06:37:06 · 4 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1

I suspected her of cheating, but i didnt call her out. So we had dinner at her parents, and i excused myself to go to the bathroom, and what i did was leave an "upper decker" in the toilet. An upper decker is where you remove the top piece off the toilet where all the plumbing is and take a huge sh*t in that and then replace the lid. It will smell and they wont figure out what it is for a while, and its tough to remove...me 1 her 0 hahah

2006-12-12 06:37:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i met this guy over the internet. We've been talking for almost half a year, but we've never met.I feel weird because we know each other but we don't. I mean, we say we're friends but we've never met and it just seems weird. He said he really liked me but that we probably couldn't be together because we live about 6 hr apart. he also said that he's afraid of commitment but that he would make room for it. I don't plan on trying to make him commit or anything because we're not even going out. I'm wondering if I should ask him about what we really are. I mean we say were friends but a lot of the stuff we talk about is girlfriend/boyfriend stuff. he wants to meet me and that doesn't really bother me because we checked each other out. he's in the army too, so I don't know if he really wants a girlfriend now. I feel stuck in the middle because we act like more than friends. he even said if we me we'd probably act like bf/gf. I don't want to ask him about us and mess up our friendship.

2006-12-12 06:37:00 · 2 answers · asked by angelicasongs 5

While it seems that it is mostly women who are affected by being portrayed as sex objects, for someone I take offence at men being, for instance, being only cast in TV shows because of their looks. Do the writers just reel men and women just to be displayed as a 'piece of tottie'? Do they treat them with dignity and mutual respect? Do they do it to make supposedly less attractive people feel inferior. I actually hate it when women make comments about a guy's looks ('cute butt' I hate the most), because they are only want to go out with him for that and they only treat him as a piece of meat, even though he could be arrogant and hit women or something. Is that what dating is just about? It would be great to hear from some who work in television.

2006-12-12 06:36:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

does it normally take to get over it? How long to stop thinking of the person?

2006-12-12 06:36:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating this guy that I have only been seeing about 2 months today. I am really not into him because of his childish behavior and attitude and how much I feel like he is sufficating me. Every time we get into an argument he runs to his mother and has her come talk to me because he doesnt do anything for himself he has his mother do everything for him. Every day he blows my phone up with calls and texts and gets so upset if he does not kno where I am 24/7. I clean his mothers house every Saturday and she happened to over hear me talking to my friend telling her that I was planning on breaking up with her son. She asked me to please wait until the holidays were over taht she didnt want my bf to be depressed during the holiday and I told her I would, but he only keeps getting worse with his attitude and he wont give me anyspace. I feel like I am going to scream....Please tell me what you think I should do. Should I wait or should I just tell him now?

2006-12-12 06:32:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 06:32:27 · 53 answers · asked by dewdrop 1

If U were in the middle of sex and the girl said hold on " I have to go poop" and got up went to the bathroom and came back 15 minutes later.....jumped back in bed and said ok. " where were we now" and started kissin U and stuff what would U do?

2006-12-12 06:31:57 · 39 answers · asked by jeffmarcelluspbl 1

Is it wrong to be completely and totally in love with a married woman..even if you do not act on it? Even if you have been feeling this for a couple of years?

2006-12-12 06:31:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a crush on this guy for quite a while now, i only see him at the club where we both go occasionally, the thing is, he keeps staring and looking at me, maybe he likes me, but he never really said anything, even my friends noticed that he gives me those looks..(God i like him!!) and there's no way i could go talk coz simply there's nothing common between both of us.. any ideas?

2006-12-12 06:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by NiMO gurL! 2