im 15 and i think im in love with my boyfriend. just saturday i spend the nignt over his house and we had sex all night. hes all i ever think of and he feel the same about me. so do u think im in love cuz i think i am
2006-12-12 06:39:28 · 16 answers · asked by bwbabylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't think you have any understanding of what love is yet since you use having sex all night as some kind of indication of love.
2006-12-12 06:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by mikesco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two definitions of love.
One is driven by feelings and hormones, and this is "immature love" or basically physical love. It's nice, and it can be all-consuming, but it doesn't last, believe me.
The other is the ability to care for someone more than yourself, to be true to them and to do what's best for them, to be able to make adult commitments and to know that you could be with them forever, even though they may someday look like Abe Vigoda, not hot like they are now. Check it out:
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You're too young to be in love, and you're definitely too young to be having sex all night long.
Where were his parents?
Are you old enough that you could raise a baby?
Then you're not old enough to have sex!
Why do you want to grow up so fast? Enjoy being a kid while you can. You will never, ever be 15 again, so don't ruin it by trying to do adult things. There is a price to pay.
2006-12-12 06:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by dork 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh darling you're so young and I know you're probably sick of hearing that, but believe me it's true. When you get older, you'll realize that sex does not equal love. You may be in love with him, it's quite possible, but you're gonna change so much over the next 6 years (I'm no were near to the same person I was at 15 and now I'm 22) that it may not last. Just take it slow, you didn't say how long you've been together, so I can't really tell if you're in love with him or not. You'll know when you're in love, you can just tell
2006-12-12 06:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety sex is something i don't think the both of you should be dong but your going to do it any way and you should feel in your heart already that you love him you shared something you should feel is priceless which is your body with him love comes in go at your age therefore practice or continue safe sex your only 15 and have all the time in the world for love and if its truly love you think your feeling GREAT enjoy you love
2006-12-12 06:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be in love and having sex. It's called infatuation. Cool it or it could get you in deep trouble.
2006-12-12 06:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES -- COOL IT!! You are only 15 -- you have your whole life ahead of you. Imagine if you got pregnant right now... not to mention how hard you would fall if this guy were to dump you.
2006-12-12 06:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jaren A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your not! At 15 you dont know what love is, you think you do, but you really have no idea. Its called infatuation!
2006-12-12 06:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just the sex that you are enamored with
if he were no longer able to have sex with you, or let's say he were to have all of his circumstances changed, would you still want to be with him?
2006-12-12 06:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Goddess T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you just think your in love.sex isnt every thing dont have sex with him and you will find out do he want you or what you have between your legs.
2006-12-12 06:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by reshuand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know for sure, then probably not.
Use protection. If it's not love, you don't want to bring a baby into it.
2006-12-12 06:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋