I AM 23 YEARS OLD AND I CANT GET A DATE WITH A NICE GUY CAUSE ALL THEY WONT TO DO IS HAVE SEX. WHAT EVERY HAPPEN TO GOING OUT AND HAVEING FUN AND GITING TO NO A PERSON THEN WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT THE (S.E.X) WORD COMES IN TO PLAY
2006-12-12 06:38:39 · 12 answers · asked by anitra s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just haven't found the right guy. Some guys at your age do not want a ready made family yet. It's a big responsibility and they may feel that if you already have a child, if they get serious with you, they already have a child. There are nice guys out there that look for more than sex..it just takes a while to find them.
2006-12-12 06:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard at all, you just have to find the right man willing to accept you "with baggage". When I first asked my wife out, I knew what I was getting into. ( At the time I was 33 & she was 24) but we didn't care. Your line about all the nice guys just wanting sex is B.S. If the guy is nice, sex is not an issue, he's interested in YOU. If he shows interest in your kids, then you have something. There is nothing wrong with a couple of dates w/out sex. This is how you know if he's true.
2006-12-12 14:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by dumbdago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patiencie is a virtue we most seek. I have been in many relationships wtih men that they at the end only wants sex, However with a little luck and a observative character I found the love of my life right next to me. My dauther is six, and first i broke up with my boyfriend, and dated this guy that was ok for a while and even liked my dauther, he was nice, but tooo, himm what the word..... PLAYER! lol, but he left me with a son, now I had 2 kids with no father... Then later before my son was born I reunite with my dauthers father and he took me and my unborn son and maried me.Now he is adopting my son. I think we just have to wait. I am 23 years old, and believe me it is hard, to find a good man. When you think u find it please make sure u treat him with respect, because nice guys are hard to come by. Most of the time they are right in front of us, but we dont see pass physical appearence, and we dont find love. Please search with xray vision to see the inside of a guy not the outside. Good Luck
2006-12-12 14:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by u_better_remember_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard. I was a single mom for a long time, and I faced the same thing. Hold on to your values. A nice guy will come along that wants more than your baby-making equipment. Not all men are pigs!
2006-12-12 14:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Robin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not hard some men cant handle it, but me i understand that maybe your not with the baby's daddy, but he has to be in your life cause ya'll have a child together. I'm 22 and not on the bull*****
so if u want to chat or looking to have some fun hit me email
trimonl@yahoo.com
hold ya head little mama i'm just an instant message away
2006-12-12 14:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by ladiesman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're looking at the wrong guys. Many people have preferences when they should be looking for love. Preferences as in white, asian, black, and etc....
Now, if everybody were to be blind right now, I'm sure many people would find the right kind of love.
My suggestion is to date other races and stop looking for that needle in a hay stack!
2006-12-12 14:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just meeting the wrong guys I guess. One child is not a deterent for a good guy. My fiance' had 3 from marriage, didn't deter me. The right guy is out there, just takes time.
2006-12-12 14:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would try to tell the men that u dont just want a fling, u want an actual relatinship.also most men are turned off instantly when they hear you have a child. those men are jerks. just keep looking and hopfully u will find someone who care about more than just sex.
2006-12-12 14:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by anne b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the world is full of players, and when they see you have a kid they know you already had sex so they think they are in, but give it time you will find mr. right !!1
2006-12-12 14:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Melindakaye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about this before bearing a child! No man wants your emotional baggage from some other man...Unless your giving it up freely..then men will be around..until they get what they need and then spit you out.,.
2006-12-12 14:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋