ok so me n my ex have started talkin we do love each other but sumtimes i just get the feelin that he does not care cuz he dont really show any effort wen we arent together. i have made mistakes wit him n he has made mistakes wit me. i do need to earn his trust bak cuz i lied bout sum stupid stuff to get his attention in the past. i talked to him bout this and he says he loves me very much n i mean everything to him he told me he knows he doesnt show it but he feels it. how do i kno hes not jsut usingme he says hes not n i think i trust his words cuz i kno he has never lied to me before. i asked him if he was using me for sex n he sed he wud never do htat to me n he has sex wit me cuz he loves me. but i dunno i jsut feel uneasy bout it all cuz we are not togehtert with the title. its jsut really unstable. wat do u think? we were each other first loves n i know he loves me but how do i kno im not just a fill in for now? plz help!! i jsut need sum real god advice. thanks.
2006-12-12 06:37:06 · 4 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your heart hun, and don't have sex with him unless YOU want to. You are a special gal, and you deserve to be with someone who really loves you, treats you with respect and makes you happy :)
2006-12-12 06:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you dont trust him completely, and there is some serious doubt, then maybe you should reconsider. Are you having sex with him because you want to, or because he does? Maybe you should ask him if you can be free for a little while and watch what he does. In the end, just follow your heart.
~Good Luck
Xenai
2006-12-12 14:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him for a while, u know turn back on him and see how he will react on that. If he call and he's looking for u, then he loves u and if he doesn't than just try 2 forget him and start new life without him. Good luck
2006-12-12 14:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by nba fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you get the feeling that he does not care (then he most likely does not mean itand if he does not mean it then he is most likely trying to go to bed with you) just move on there are better men out there
2006-12-12 14:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Clever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋