There is this guy who works in my gym and i am totally falling for him. We have become really good friends recently and the more i talk to him the more i totaly adore him.
The thing is he is 15 years older than me, which does not bother me at all but i think it might bother him. I really want to ask him out but like all girls im scared of the rejection cause i would still need to see him all the time, that would be akward!!
Anyone got any words of wisdom for me??
2006-12-12 06:39:11 · 9 answers · asked by anastacia500 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be confident in who you are...there is nothing awkward about it if he says "no" to your advances...but you'll never know if you don't try! And don't listen to all the "girls in the gym"...they're just scared to express their own feelings!
2006-12-12 06:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to give a guys perspective i imagine he has an idea how you feel but not a 100% and you never know he might be thinking the same thoughts as you, thinking you would not want to go out with him because of your age difference.
so I think you should ask him and be pleasantly surprised:)
I hope it works out well for you.
2006-12-12 07:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by theo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until he asks me, I would still be hinting him, "What's up" but I think I would wait because of the fear of rejection and also because I like it when they ask me. Just wait and see what happens and if you still want to go on asking him out, go ahead. You'll be fine. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-12 06:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by abeauty1102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out for coffee after gym sometime.
This will let him know you're interested, but it won't be such a big deal, so you shouldn't get too nervous about it.
2006-12-12 06:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by dork 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i would advice to let him know how you feel. If he rejects you then there is nothing for you to do, but its better then to just keep wondering what could happend if you actually did it. You never know, but its better to find out.
2006-12-12 06:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by elena1209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can`t tell you to or not to,so ask but be ready in case of rejection,or keep quiet about it and never know
2006-12-12 06:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold the weights while he lies on the bench press and just before he grasps the curlers --- rise it above his thingy and say...babes if you say no I will drop this on you lol..
2006-12-12 06:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you just have to take a chance. he just might surprise ya with his answer. if you never ask, then you will never know.
good luck
2006-12-12 06:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by bayouktty6969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these feels aren't coming from nowhere and if you don't ask him you will always have the "what if". love is a risk without the risk it is not love.
2006-12-12 06:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by bekah22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋