Singles & Dating - 5 December 2006

ok me and my ex bf dated for a while and turns out he cheated on me..several times.. sex wise .. i did not want to have sex with him.. but he was my first on several things .. n e wayz my friends kept teeling me that he was cheating he is not good for you ect.. then i asked him and we got into a fight and he ended it .. i did not want to end it.. did he do it b/c i was mad ? or what we have really not talked since although we talked for a short bit on msn and he kept saying i dont want u i know i was drunk when i did it but i knew what i was doing.. i think my heart wants him back and part of my doesn't but im not sure can someone please help me out ???

2006-12-05 11:23:15 · 3 answers · asked by linny !! 1

2006-12-05 11:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by maxleewelles 1

I am a 40 year old woman

2006-12-05 11:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by Airplanegirl 6

i have had the BIGGEST crush on this guy FOREVER! but then i got a boyfriend. i secretly still liked him though, but i knew it could never happen. then, today he asked me to be his girlfriend! i had to say no because i have a boyfriend. but i dont really love my boyfriend as much and i feel guilty. what do i do?

2006-12-05 11:22:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

we broke up but we still have feelings for each other we still conversate occasssionally....

2006-12-05 11:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by jessica l 2

2006-12-05 11:21:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

to be in or fall in love with someone you have never physically met?

2006-12-05 11:21:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing this guy for over a year and a half. I am in lov with him. Things started to change almost a year ago. I found out that he was text messaging and talking to another girl. I confronted him and he stopped. Over the past several months there have been 3 others that I have found out about. He swears nothing happened, but I know that he was telling them he was not dating anyone. I told him we needed to be apart for awhile and he swears that he loves me and will never do it again. I have met someone else, but I still love him. What do I do?

2006-12-05 11:20:59 · 10 answers · asked by broken heart 1

2006-12-05 11:20:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay well, there's this boy that I like. Everyone says that we'd be cute together. I wanna know if its true so can u help me please ? Well when we're at our lockers I always talk to him, and sometimes when he see's me he comes and says hi. Today after lunch we were talking and he asked me something (no he didn't ask me out)then I answered his question and we both started laughing. Well before that I went to his table and I started talking with him and one of his friends. I told him how I got his friend in trouble. We both sorta started laughing. Then once when I was telling him something I was holding his arm and this other boy likes me and he looked at me like I was a sl*t.Then he shook a lil and he put his arm round me. Then all my friends and a few of his friends say that we're the perfect match. What do u think. Please help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-05 11:19:50 · 14 answers · asked by Victoria 3

WELL I GOT UR ATTENTION SO IF I THINK ABOUT A GUY ALL THE TIME AND WE'VE DATED BEFORE SHOULD I TRY TO GET BACK WITH HIM??

2006-12-05 11:19:28 · 9 answers · asked by confussed 2

2006-12-05 11:19:22 · 8 answers · asked by blahblahblah 5

in one of my classes, i talked to an 85 year old woman who is from my homewtown, boston. i go to school in PA. she was auditing the class and always really nice to me. i got to know her pretty well. i'm graduating this semester and want to take her to the dining hall. we talked about it. would it be socially awkward if the girl i like sees me eating with an old lady or would it seem like a sweet gesture??
i want to take her to the dining hall as a way of saying thank you for being so nice and friendly to me and saying good bye.... but would a girl see this as being a loser or being sweet?

2006-12-05 11:19:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so i want to approach this person but don't know what to say, can you guys help me out (realistic pick up lines only). By pickup lines i mean anything that may spark conversation from the opposite person.

2006-12-05 11:18:38 · 13 answers · asked by Work Hard, Make Money, Enjoy Life... 3

do girls like it when us guys say your butt is big and i want to **** because i say it t my girl but i think she hates it but she never said she didnt so i dont stop but i stopped say that because i think she hates it and just wont tell me

2006-12-05 11:18:36 · 9 answers · asked by cool and popular 1

i never met him, but i know alot about him. we usually chat on aim so we know about each other alot. and he seems a really kool guy. he's very nice, and he helped me through some really though times for me, but i never met him before. i know what he looks lik and he knows what i look like. i seen some pictures of him. he's really good friends with a guy i used to like (not anymore) he's very funny and loves to joke. he's just a really really really nice guy, BUT I NEVER MET HIM and i think i like him now. so am i really in love with him, and what do i do if i am in love? how can i tell him before even actually meet him in person?

2006-12-05 11:16:45 · 35 answers · asked by Charlene 1

im engaged and lately my fiance has been acting weird... being very... abusive and aggresive and demanding of things..
he hit me.. and i cried and right after he did he said he'd never hurt me again.... Now i kno what you are thinking.. that i should just leave him. I love him so much and don't want to lose him. i think maybe its because all the stress and im just adding more on to his pain. is it my fault that he's so mad?? i try to do everything to keep him happy but its just worse .. should i leave him alone for a while?? he has never showed this side of himself to me before and i don't know what to do. everything was going fine until the moment after i said yes.

should i stay? should i leave?
plz help.. i wanna make this work for the best.

2006-12-05 11:16:35 · 31 answers · asked by Ja.Leah.Shuh. 2

I am of marriagable age, but I do not feel anything for the institution of marriage nor any type of commited/non-commited relationships or any intimacy with the opposite or same sex. But I do appreciate a good laugh and enjoy people's company very much. I have so many interests that satisfy, I don't think a relationship satisfies. It is honestly (sigh**) a WASTE OF TIME. I'm not getting married, so what's the hurry? I am not ugly or of bad character or personality, just odd for my rather (let me not brag) genes.

Sometimes, I look all around and I see all struggle in this rat race to hook up and get married... But I feel apathy with that and feel it will BIND me up! I dislike the thought of it all. No pleasure is greater than music or the arts. I love to spend my time learning or not wasting any time on frivolous or inane conversation with some dude. Am I just completely ODD or are there people like me out there? I am a bit odd according to Erikson... I should be hookin up

2006-12-05 11:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by summation 2

I just went out with this guy that I've known for a bit today. He's really hot. I'm 25 and he's 28. Unfortunately, he said he thinks I shouldn't wear sexy clothes. I really don't want to stop wearing what I want to wear, because this is my style, but if I don't he does not want to go out anymore. Any thoughts?

2006-12-05 11:14:44 · 34 answers · asked by bikinigirl41 1

this guy in my class always ask me if i likethis one guy in my class when everyones talking but people can still hear our conversation..sometimes my crush is even right there and i dont know what to say, because i dont wanna lie , especially if my crush is right there and i say no...sometimes the guy is like "would u ever go out with adam(his name) and i dont know what to sayy! i dont wanna tell him the truth because hes pretty untrustworthy, and i dont want the secret to get out, but the only thing im really worried about is what to say to him when he asks me in class, when he or his friends or my friends who know about me liking him, are nearby..

no one knows except my friends none of his friends..
help!??
thx

2006-12-05 11:13:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a boyfriend, Mike. Well we were going steadily until i found out that he was cheating on me, so i decided to break up with him. But now he wants me back...I really need help. What should I do?

2006-12-05 11:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by i <3 xou 2

2006-12-05 11:12:45 · 3 answers · asked by dainty 1

i'm head over heels for this gy named david....but i have no clue what he thinks about me. normally he'll steal my stuff, poke my side, tease me, talk (but no longer than 5 minuets) and some of my friends say they see him stare at me. but he's popular and flirts with many girls. i can't even control my feelings for him anymore. he's totally perfect but what if he doesn't like me.....or even worse, what if he has a gf??!!?!?!?!?!? i don't know what i'd do if he was taken! please, i need advice.

(ps. i'm ugly and i'm not too popular at my school.....)

2006-12-05 11:11:45 · 2 answers · asked by santaz_lil_slacker 2

Just wondered.... I bumped into my 'ex', a guy a dated a few times but still feel for him. I'm sure he must see this from my face as when I looked at him, I felt like I was still falling for him. Can anyone throw any light on this?

2006-12-05 11:10:43 · 7 answers · asked by sonia 1

what do you like best eye contact or the smile,and is there a diffrence wetween the two, and what one would [,out of the two] make you go over to that person. [ and people be nice on this one.

2006-12-05 11:10:32 · 18 answers · asked by BD M 2

So this boy, was my best friend. I still think he is. Problem? i asked him out- dumb idea now we both liked each other but then nothing changed when we went out so then i thought i didnt like him, so i was thinking about dumping him. Then, i finally did. He went haywire and said all of these things so i got mad back. way back when, he promised he'd never hurt me or start talkign to me no matter what and i believed him but he lied. So he went to the movies with this girl "to cheer him up" and I found out that i actually really do like him. I've been miserable all day and last night, crying and everything. I'm numb. We're kinda talking now, i apoligized and told him everything. I want him to like me again, i want to be his friend. I hate what happened, i lost my bestfriend. HELP!

2006-12-05 11:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by jjeessiiccaa 2

i never fell in love with a girl, and i think a girl never fell in love with me ,but i did have a stalker once ,but thats it .so i need know how do i make a girl fall in love with me.

2006-12-05 11:09:15 · 4 answers · asked by cool and popular 1

I'd appreciate any and all answers. I'm doing this for a psychology project. Please no Feminazis, women who think women should rule the world and destroy all men, feminists are fine though, i'm all for equality. And also, please no answers similar to "I'm a man, and as a man I can do whatever the hell I want"

Thank you for answering!

2006-12-05 11:08:38 · 23 answers · asked by tdavis179@sbcglobal.net 2

2006-12-05 11:06:04 · 21 answers · asked by Redhead 2

I'm a thin, athletic girl, I wouldn't say I'm drop dead gorgeous, but I'm pretty sure I don't make people cry when they look at me...I'd say I'm a happy middle somewhere in there. I'm kinda short for my age (and will be forever since I've stopped growing...lol), I've 5ft tall and I'm 17. However, I'm outgoing and I'm not a demanding girl, I'm not prissy, and I'm just pretty chill all around. The thing is...I've never had a bf and would kinda like one. Anytime I've tried to get close to a guy I've kinda messed things up (I get kinda clingy a little fast, i really don't mean too, and I realize I'm doing it...it's just when I care about someone, as a girl, I want them to know how I feel, and I know guys aren't so much like that...at all). I don't want to be this way, but I don't know how to be any other way. So basically...what do guys like in girls (in general)...and what turns them off (cuz I think that clingyness has got to, I mean I don't even like the fact that I do it...lol)?

2006-12-05 11:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by sk8rgrl02631 2