i never met him, but i know alot about him. we usually chat on aim so we know about each other alot. and he seems a really kool guy. he's very nice, and he helped me through some really though times for me, but i never met him before. i know what he looks lik and he knows what i look like. i seen some pictures of him. he's really good friends with a guy i used to like (not anymore) he's very funny and loves to joke. he's just a really really really nice guy, BUT I NEVER MET HIM and i think i like him now. so am i really in love with him, and what do i do if i am in love? how can i tell him before even actually meet him in person?
2006-12-05 11:16:45 · 35 answers · asked by Charlene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and....plz help!!! this is one thing i can't go to him about. *whaa whaa*
Thank You Sooooooooo Much!!!
2006-12-05 11:17:53 · update #1
what's lust?
2006-12-05 11:18:17 · update #2
Basically, people sometimes fall in love with the idea of "being in love". We can develop a "picture" or perception of what we believe a person is like. Unfortunately, this type of thing is kind of a fantasy. I'm sure your on line friend seems nice, but it isn't love. You need to know a person in real life and really get to know them, not just words on a screen. Good luck with finding "love".
Peace be with you!
2006-12-05 11:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that if you have been talking to him than you have met him on the inside. i mean i guess people can lie on the internet but they can lie in person to your face too right. it would take a while to find out if this is truly who he is but what you do know of him of couse you can be in love.i wouldnt actually tell him that you are in love with him just yet as you may scare him but you can tell him with like subtle hints like if you keep being this awesome im gonna fall in love with you before we even meet. or something. i would also see how he is in person a few times. sometimes a person can tell you oh i hold doors for ladys, pay for our meals etc. but you need to find out if hes as real as he says he is. remember actions speak louder than words and right now all youve got is words. go make the next move and good luck.
2006-12-05 11:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by mamamia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight! You get to know someone, especially the way you have. I would be nice if you could meet him inperson. No offense but some guys on Sites, dont put thier exact picture on the post, and some arent who they say they are. Just be careful. Im sure its ok, the guy you are staying in touch with is harmless, but Ive heard too many stories, Im sure you have too.
2006-12-05 11:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Sweet Friend
why not,,it could happen that you fall in love with someone you never met in person,,it would never be a lust,,the lust comes from seeing faces and bodies,, but you never met him,,you are just attracted to his personality,his heart,his mind, and his soul
beleive me,,this kind of feelings you have is love,,and its more clean than love when you meet and hang hout with him person,,coz in this case you are ,,is loving for his spiritual issues ,,not physically,,, and if your relationship get more develpment and you meet him in person,,this love will grow up more and more,,coz it started with feelings for the precious thing "heart,mind and soul" and when faces and bodies meet,,it will just get a new kind o connection ,,and it will be stronger then.
take my advice,, its a real love,,but be careful and be sure of his feelings to you,., and dont start talking,, let him take the first step and see what he would do for you.
Good Luck
2006-12-05 11:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by carry_me5455 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is beyond the confines of physical proximity. It is possible, to fall in love. However you are falling in love with your perception of this individual. I have no source, so this is a estimate/guess, but id say 95% of Chat users are not the same in person. My advice is to treat lightly, and meet the person, decide if they are really worth making changes to your life for them. (this is ofcourse assuming you are an adult). If your below 20 years of age, Id say it is too dangerous for you to attempt to form a more complex relationship with this person. Enjoy what pleasure you have from chatting with them, but it would not be wise to go and meet someone you only know from online. There are online predators abound.
2006-12-05 11:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Chris R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU CAN! one of my best friends is from online and i dont know what i would do without her. she is literally my missing other half!!!! i totally believe that it can happen =) its almost better to meet online because than you dont judge on looks you are judging on personality which most of the time is the most important part in a relationship, especially when you both have similiar likes and values. just make sure that he isnt some strange crazy person before you really pursue anything further
2006-12-05 11:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by charmed12184 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. These types of relationships can be dangerous. Getting to know someone on the Internet allows them to keep info from you. You need to spend time with him in person. Don't let yourself get hooked into a fraud. Try to be smart and look out for yourself. There are a lot of people out there who will take advantage of you if your not careful even when their nice and funny.
2006-12-05 11:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I met my boyfriend on-line.We chatted on-line for 2 years before we met face to face.Before we met face to face we liked each other.We talked every chance we got.But my age was the only thing keeping us from not metting I was 16 and we was 32.So when after I turned 18 we met face to face.And here it is 4 years later and we're together.We been together ever since the night we met face to face.
I wouldn't call what you have love...Wait till you meet him face to face before deciding if it's love or not.Not everyone is the same in person as they are on-line!
2006-12-05 11:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. It's not like the Internet creates some sort of mystical barrier that prevents people from falling in love until they meet each other face-to-face. I mean, there's a reason personals websites are so successful, right?
2006-12-05 11:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you can fall in "love" with someone until you know him. You need to spend time with him in person, or you are just in love with the idea of him. Real-life relationships are sometimes disappointing after creating an expectation based on an online relationship.
2006-12-05 11:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋