Ok, so i want to approach this person but don't know what to say, can you guys help me out (realistic pick up lines only). By pickup lines i mean anything that may spark conversation from the opposite person.
2006-12-05 11:18:38 · 13 answers · asked by Work Hard, Make Money, Enjoy Life... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What if you have known the person for a long time (and they have known you), but you never have actually talked to each other?
2006-12-05 11:31:42 · update #1
Yo Larry,
After literally thousands of field-tested studies from a variety of dating coaches and pick up artists from around the world over the past decade, it has been proven that pick up lines do NOT work.
It's not about the pick up line.
It's about WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON.
I never used to believe that but with more than 4,000 approaches under my belt since the new millennium, I know a little bit about this subject. :P
If you were to talk with your friends or family, do you have any problems talking to them? Of course you don't. Why? Because you already have that comfort zone. But also your mind isn't being messed up by "tunnel vision" which can happen when you see a hot girl. Her looks trigger certain things in your biochemistry as well as your brain.
You want to approach her but you don't know what to "say". That's baloney. You do know what to say but you're allowing your attraction to this person get in the way. You are also TOO attached to the outcome because you want to make it work out with this person. The fact is, you are going to approach people and not all of them are going to dig you or vibe with you.
Hey, that's OK.
You've got to get out there and practice. If you're not talking to at least 25 different girls per week to really hone your social skills then you're really not serious about this. Start talking to eveyrone you meet. That waitress or waiter that comes to your table, ask them how their day is going. Ask the lady in line at the super market what she thinks about Brittney and Fedex breaking up. Just practice.
If you're confident, KNOW you are the greatest gift to anyone who meets you, and you carry yourself that way with eye contact, potent body language, and are not afraid of any outcome, then you're going to have more success.
Pick up lines don't work.
Working on becoming your "better self" works a million times better. Approach this person with Positive Intent, ask them about something or ask for an opinion, and then just take it from there. Don't force anything. If they do not want to engage you back, then you already know where you stand and it's time to move onto the next person.
Rod
2006-12-05 11:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need a pick up line just be ur self say whats up or hi i was just looking at u and i find u vert attractive i was wondering if i could take u out sometime say something casual if u wanna be a a horn dog say something like are u jamaican cause ur ja ma can me crazy or like may i chack ur shirt tag to see if its says made in heaven
2006-12-05 11:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by emo chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm a female, I like it when a guy comes up to me and plays it cool with alot of self-confiedence
2006-12-05 11:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by trouble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you from tennessee? reason your the only 10 i see. are you a library card? reason i'm checkin you out are you fortunate charms? reason your magically delicious are you a magician? reason while your in the room you're making all and sundry else disappear. in case your precise leg is easter, and your left leg is thanksgiving, am i able to pass to you in between the vacations?
2016-12-18 08:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women typically have something or wear something that they want others to notice. Observe what that is and then make your move. Ask her where she got it. Tell her that you have a sister or a cousin that would love it.
2006-12-05 11:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forget about going to heaven because it's sin to look that good.
. Hola, quieres salir conmigo?(hey, want to go out with me?)
2006-12-05 11:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I told you that you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me?
2006-12-05 11:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Joseph S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm (insert name here)
2006-12-05 11:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by xnightshade17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliment, compliment, compliment
Or ask....
whats your favorite book/movie/vacation spot, etc....
then roll with it baby...
2006-12-05 11:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i looked @ u, i didnt turn my head, i broke my neck
2006-12-05 11:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by sosickofyoungminds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋