I had a boyfriend, Mike. Well we were going steadily until i found out that he was cheating on me, so i decided to break up with him. But now he wants me back...I really need help. What should I do?
2006-12-05 11:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by i <3 xou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont get back with him because if he really liked you then he never would have cheated on you if u take him back then he knows that he could do what ever he wants knowning that you will take him back
2006-12-05 11:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by paige 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that you can trust him?
Do you think that he will be faithful this time around?
If you really want him back then you need to decide if you can trust him or not. If you can than give it a lot of time just being friends, or casually dating until the time is right.
If you have any doubts though than you are not ready to give him another chance, at least not yet, and only time will tell if you ever are ready.
Good luck.......
2006-12-05 11:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life WITHOUT Mike, if he cheated on you he really didn't care much about you. If you go back, he will think that he can do it again and you'll come around again. He's your EX for a reason!
2006-12-05 11:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by marisanj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok cheating boyfriend wants to get back NEVER dont do it because if you take him back he might do it again and I wouldnt trust my heart with someone who has broken it before. Find someone else who is worth your time. You dont need any excheating boyfriend. No matter how much he is changed no matter how sweat he is being he cheated on you. Even if he says he was stupid for doing it he did it. Dont do it, he was unfaithful you dont want to be with someone who is unfaithful you want to be with someone who knows how to treat you right
2006-12-05 11:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he cheated on u i prob. wouldn't so u don't get ur heart broke. But then again if u do still like him then give him a chance but tell him that if he ever cheats again that its over for good or how ever u would like to handle it.
2006-12-05 11:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by leeboo13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he wants you back. So he can cheat on you again. he didn't care if he hurt and betrayed you and now he wants you back. You broke up with him for a good reason, if you take him back your only giving him permission to hurt and betray you again. hes rejected you once don't give him the chance to reject you again
2006-12-05 11:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get back together with him cuz hes just gonna cheat again because he wants both of you.
2006-12-05 11:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kayzizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but if he cheats now, he will always cheat. Did he tell you he was cheating? If he told you at least that shows something, but if you had to find out, Dump His Assss!!!!!
2006-12-05 11:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by blue2greeneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like cheaters go back if not run for you catch some thing you have your warning already now take heed
2006-12-05 11:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by trinavanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him back? If the answer isn't clear, tell him you are still recovering from last time and you need to think some more. Isn't love overbearing?
-hitzusen
2006-12-05 11:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by hitzusen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋