what do you like best eye contact or the smile,and is there a diffrence wetween the two, and what one would [,out of the two] make you go over to that person. [ and people be nice on this one.
2006-12-05 11:10:32 · 18 answers · asked by BD M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe they go hand by hand when there's a spark between two. If the eyes invite you, you smile.
2006-12-05 11:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by scarlet_hawkmoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do eye contact, it doesn't work without the smile. It's like trying to make a fire with only some pieces of wood and no match. I would always walk up to a person with a smlile that gives warth, eyt a sharp look of eye contact to show they're not shy.
2006-12-05 19:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that they both work. However, a smile goes a long way, it is a friendly indication between a girl and a boy. Eye contact sometimes seems to be mislead. A smile is definite.
2006-12-05 19:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "eye contact".. you know that they are serious and listening to you.. and i like when i can lay with my man and look into his eyes and he looks back and i can understand everything he's saying without ever hearing him speak a word.. a look is worth more then a smile to me, and most smiles are forced, not to many people smile with seriousness anymore... i like your question and give it a thumbs up.. good luck and best wishes in all you do..
2006-12-05 19:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person, and what kind of attiude they give off, but generally speaking I would prefer a smile. If a person just looked at me, it could mean anything (including antipathy), whereas if they smiled without making much eye contact they could just be shy.
2006-12-05 19:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact can mean focused but it can also be staring, personally, in most situations, I'd go with the smile. It shows a person that you're listening to them because you've given a reaction, and on top of that, it's a positive one. Also, they'll feel more welcome and relaxed once they feel like they're in a friendly enviornment.
2006-12-05 19:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by tdavis179@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love smiles. I think eye contact can be sleazy if its not done correctly. Smiles are more inviting. They convey the message lets be friends and see where it goes. While eye contact says lets get to bed.
2006-12-05 19:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do so much with body language most seem to have no idea yoiu just have to think about what your doing and the emotion your trying to put across its all so subtle you can look at a picture of just the eye area and tell if that person is scared,angry, flirtatious, happy, lost in thought ect. I do better on average than women do at this but still my point is its all about subtle communication and its very powerfull.
2006-12-05 19:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the smile :-P it amazes me eye contact doesn't really mean much to me
2006-12-05 19:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact for sure
2006-12-05 19:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by jrsygrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋