I need help with a boy!?

Question

So this boy, was my best friend. I still think he is. Problem? i asked him out- dumb idea now we both liked each other but then nothing changed when we went out so then i thought i didnt like him, so i was thinking about dumping him. Then, i finally did. He went haywire and said all of these things so i got mad back. way back when, he promised he'd never hurt me or start talkign to me no matter what and i believed him but he lied. So he went to the movies with this girl "to cheer him up" and I found out that i actually really do like him. I've been miserable all day and last night, crying and everything. I'm numb. We're kinda talking now, i apoligized and told him everything. I want him to like me again, i want to be his friend. I hate what happened, i lost my bestfriend. HELP!

Answer 1

I don't think you realise how much you may have hurt your friend. You need to take a G i a n t step back and look at things from his point of view, step into his shoes, you asked him out and broke his heart.

After you do that then you will have a clearer picture and you will be able to follow your instincts and treat him as sweetly as you would like to.

Answer 2

Accept a lot of the blame, it may be hard but if you really do like him (for sure this time) you have to. You asked him out, you dumped him, you knew how he acts (if you were good best friends).
Sorry to say being fickle is NOT a desirable trait.

If it's worth it do the right thing.

Answer 3

Just talk to him. Tell him that he said he would never hurt you and say that he did, tell him you atleast want to be really good friends again and ask if he wants to hang out sometime.

Answer 4

tell him just that - you lost your best friend and it's killing you inside - if he cares anything for you he will understand and you both should be able to get back on track - good luck

Answer 5

Annoying ****** question - NEXT!