usually if a guy is telling you that you dres TOO sexy...it really means that you are dressing TOO slutty...and yes, I would change for you...
2006-12-05 11:17:21
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answered by shasta 5
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Do u want to stop wearing sexy clothes? Or do u just want to stop for him? Try not dressing sexy anymore, u might like it. But if not, change back. A really hot guy isn't worth ur unhappiness. And if u do this just to be nice, and keep him, he's gonna think as time goes on, that he can boss u around. And ur gonna feel obligated as ur feelings get deeper. Or ur gonna hate urself for jumping through all his hoops. Just remind him...that he asked u out because u wore sexy clothes(I assume u dress that way a lot), and that it's not right that he got together with u just to change u. He should trust u, and that has nothing to do with clothes.
2006-12-05 11:24:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Do not change for him - you're 25 & free; there will come a day when you can't dress thay way anymore & more importantly, you won't want to. Styles evolve, as do relationships, but if you've had one date & he's asking you to change your appearance, run away! In 2 months he will be controlling what you wear, where you go, who you see and you'll start losing friends because he will monopolize all your time & they won't put up with you being controlled. Real men aren't afraid of other men checking out their girl, but he is, & he's insecure.
2006-12-05 13:41:44
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answered by teriod 3
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depends on your definition of sexy... everyones is different. You are 25, and if you are trying to 'settle' down it may be appropriate to calm down the sexyness just a bit. I'm not saying to loose your sense of style, just find a new way to encorporate it that you both can agree with. And if you have only dated him a few times, the fact that he is asking you to do this is a bit odd to me.
2006-12-05 11:18:40
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answered by amadiojr 2
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What is wrong with this guy? Most guys love sexy! He needs to get his head checked. As for changingyourself for a guy, you need to think about that. Do you like this guy more than you like your style? Think about it.
2006-12-05 11:31:07
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answered by Star 3
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That put Dr Steve in a better mood! Are they too sexy? He probably doesn't like other guys hitting on you while you are out with him
2006-12-05 11:18:41
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answered by Merrily 3
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Keep the sexy cloths, just wear them when appropriate.
2006-12-05 11:21:17
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answered by Chris 1
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No way! Then why is he going out with you? So he can change your mind of course. Stay away from that kind of guy. He has to accept who you are. There's nothing wrong with looking hot ;-)
2006-12-05 11:18:24
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answered by scarlet_hawkmoon 3
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Ask him why he objects. That is, personal preference, public embarrassment, religion, whatever. In the meantime, just wear whatever you feel most comfortable with, and whatever it is don't try to flaunt it; you are more important to guys than your clothes are.
2006-12-05 11:17:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Definitely not. You're your own person. You want someone who likes you for who you are. Also, the first signs of a potential abuser is that they start trying to control little details of your life and then progress to bigger things. I'm not saying this guy is an abuser, but please be careful!!!
2006-12-05 11:36:44
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answered by Dragoness A 2
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Its pathetic to change for a guy!
And known for a bit today?!
why on earth would u care what he thinks then?!
2006-12-05 11:18:38
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answered by ? 3
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